For his bestfriend, we've had asecret affair for over 6 months now, and he is really great in bed, and doesn't want children.
2007-04-30 10:31:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Your husband deserves to be free to find a good woman, and his friend deserves you. And you'll deserve what you get, when neither of them want you six months from now.
2007-04-30 10:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your husbands bestfriend.. Maybe your husband should seek out better friends and too a honest wife.
And your judgeing this guy on size?. Maybe you should have stayed single hummm?. I think you need to tell your husband and let him know what a hurtful person his best friend is as well as yourself.
I hope you don't have children cause what kind of life are you leading in front of them?
He probably doesn't want kids because your both childish.
I think your husband can do better in both cases. He needs a woman not a two timer.
2007-04-30 17:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe that you would disrespect yourself like this? How could you leave your husband for his best friend? Better yet, how could you be attracted to your husbands best friend?
Oh yeah!!! He's great in bed!!! ha ha ha...The one that you're cheating with is always good in bed, until that wears off and then you'll become another knotch on his belt buckle and the two of them will remain friends and you'll be treated for the scrub that you are.
Hope there's no kids involved....
2007-04-30 17:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was raised to believe divorce and adultery are wrong i think you need to go to church and ask god for forgivness and i think u are being selfish you would not destroy only his life but your own you will end up more miserable than you could imagine and will realize it to late and how much do u really no about this guy on an intamate level if he would sleep with you and your his best freinds wife how do you think he would do u behind your back after the thrill was gone then u wont have him or your husband your probably more lucky than u no to have your husband and should quit thinking about yourself sex isnt the most important thing viberaters and shower heads work just great when things get boring
2007-04-30 17:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not judging you but your husband deserves better then someone who is lying to him. It may hurt him to see you go but if you can't be honest with him and cheating on him with a friend of his then it may be best to let him go. Let him find someone who can make him and only him happy giving him the things he wants and deserves. You have found what you want and what makes you happy, let him do the same.
2007-04-30 17:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Manda 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, by all means, PLEASE leave your husband. If you can't be faithful to him in all ways, you're not really with him anyways, and he deserves more than that. Good luck on your new relationship too. It'll most likely fall to pieces and you'll regret you ever did this. Karma comes back sooner or later, and it almost ALWAYS has a mean bite for those of us who make bad choices...but you'll have burned your bridges on going back, so good luck with ALL that.
2007-04-30 17:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all, an affair? why would you marry your husband and for 6 months, cheat on a another guy...why did you marry him in the first place? i would never do that to my husband!!! i love him too much and thats why i married him. do not leave ur husband. dump that best friend dirtbag of his...a bff would never do that. you are crazy!!!!! and good luck on using a condom every time you have sex...c ya you s***y wh***
2007-04-30 17:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by JJ's Advice Column 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only live once. If you think you can deal with it do it. Life is short. Some time in the future you will be glad you did it. To stay in a dull relationship for one day is stupid.
2007-04-30 17:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mister Bald 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not? You two deserve each other. Free up your husband for a GOOD woman who will appreciate him. You can have the scum that sleeps with his best friends wife. And when he sleeps with YOUR best friend, I look forward to seeing THAT on Yahoo Answers!
2007-04-30 17:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by teacherintheroom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Shame On You Both!
So; He is good in bed? What else is he good at? Will he provide a good home for you? Will he treat you with respect? Will he treat you with trust?
Or will he someday disrespect You and Cheat On You?
2007-04-30 17:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋