She is 5 months pregnant and she asked for a baby 6 months before becoming pregnant and I didnt plan on getting her pregnant but it happened and now it is an emotional roller coaster and she is happy one moment wont talk to me the next and now she says she doesnt feel the same for me and left me. I was planning to ask her for marriage on Friday but she was in a major bout of anger and I figured it would backfire on me. With all the frustration and worry in me with what is going on I am going to the doc tomorrow because I used to take antidepressents a few years back. Now I feel like a basketcase myself. I have a hard time sleeping, I cry, havent eaten or really had any fluids in 3-4 days and feel weak and dizzy everywhere I go, I am withdrawing from family, friends just annoy me and I am trying my damn hardest to be there for her and giving the impression I am fine. I have gone from weighing 232 on Thrusday to 216 this morning and I cant eat anything without feeling sick.
2007-04-30 07:46:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My hear goes out to all mean who deal with a nasty pregnancy and I have a new respect for women being able to go through a pregnancy without them killing themselves. I must say this is the hardest storm I have ever dealth with. I have never been plagued with so much worry, sickness and emotion about something before. The due date is September 10th. I want to be married to her and have a family but when a guys relationship to the woman he loves seems to be in jeopardy especially when it involves his first child it is the hardest thing I can think of to deal with. This is incredibly hard for me and I cant wait till the pregnancy is over.
2007-04-30 08:03:47 · update #1
Hormones are crazy when your pregnant. I have 5 kids and have had my bouts with hormones for sure. Thank God my marrige survived it. The best advice I can give is be pateint with her. It's hard for her and you so much is changing in her but eventually she return to her normal self. Aknowladge her feelings, also if it's really bad or she is suffering from depresson talk to her doctor. The are medications they can perscribe. Most importantly remind her that she is beautiful and sexy. Your self-esteem can really take a bashing when your pregnant.
2007-04-30 07:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by hsm5grls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just the pregnancy talking don't take it to hard and the not eating well you need to eat. you guy should sit down with some one you both trust and talk about this and you should most of all ask her to marry you
2007-04-30 14:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the wonderful world of Hormones
2007-04-30 14:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋