2007-04-30 03:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's best to stay and tell your spouse how you feel. You can fight politely and not make your spouse hate you. Just listen to her argument and don't speak when she is speaking. Then give your opinion respectfully and with out shouting. Never walk away. That solves nothing... HOWEVER be carful what you say, because three weeks from now you won't care what you were fighting about, but you will remember harsh words that were unnecessarily said.
2007-04-30 03:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ninja Showdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need a little more to go on than that, but in my present situation with my husband I ask myself that all the time. Do I fight for our relationship, or walk? Believe me, I get so close to choosing the latter option.
No one can tell you what the answer is, We do love each other but I really do get close to giving up. The pressure gets to much does'nt it??
If there is love still in your heart for this person. and depending on the circumstanses, try and work it out.
Visualise what life would mean, and what it would be like without that person in your life. Remember when things are really tough, a trial seperation can help. A little bit of breathing space for both of you. I hope this helps a little, I wish you luck
2007-04-30 03:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fight...or talk it out. He walks away. He has the idea that if he doesn't talk about it, it will just go away. Problems are never solved by walking away. But I have also learned to pick my battles.
2007-04-30 04:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid me saying something stupid when I am mad I walk away until I can think straight. Me and my man have been together for almost a year without one argument. This is the first relationship I can actually say is working out.
I've gotten to the point when we are very mad at eachother but instead of blowing up I walk away and calm down then we talk things out. I never rasied my voice and he has never raised his.
2007-04-30 03:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do neither, I stay where I am and explain that I am not going to fight over this matter and it needs to be dropped now before anything else gets said. If he chooses to fight about it, then I go into la-la land until he is done his rant and repeat the same words all over again, until he gets the point that I am not fighting over something stupid.
2007-04-30 03:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fight...lol
Why....because it feels better than walking away even though people will tell you it's better to walk away. It only makes me ponder more on why I needed to stay and fight...lol.
2007-04-30 03:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Always Camera Ready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the argument. If it's something the person says that's below the belt, or a misjudgment by the person on me or something, I'll stay and square off. If it's something so off the wall that has nothing to do with anything, I walk away.
2007-04-30 03:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for over 12 yrs, we try not to fight, instead we try to talk things out in a rational manner, but when things do get overly heated one of us usually trys to walk away. Once we calm down, we then go back to trying to resolve it calmly.
2007-04-30 03:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by syns_pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation...most of the time I walk away.
2007-04-30 03:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think cowards walk away, so i perfer fight cause if you have a problem it better to work on it right away, and i also think when we're mad we also tell the true and never give them time to think and make up story
2007-04-30 03:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋