I constantly have guys touching my butt and it is getting annoying . People always are talking about and they think I don't know what they are saying , but I do an it is too bad to put on Yahoo . And there is this really cute guy that is flirting with me all the time but I don't do anything because I don't want to make a fool out of myself .
Someone PLEASE HELP Me !!!!!!!!!!1
Also , at home it is pretty rough because of my parents . I believe they are getting a divorce and they don't even talk to each other . This pain at home is coming out in my work . My grades are dropping dramatically . I went from a straight A student to a failure . Help please .
I am only 11.
2007-04-30 00:27:47 · 9 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Middle school is a major milestone in your life and can be really tough to get through. Our schools here have a zero tolerence for that behavior. A teacher would be your best bet to discuss this with as they are there and aware of the policies at your school. That kind of touching is unacceptable and you need to let your mom know what going on. As for the gossip, this to will pass. Kids your age enjoy hurting with words. WHY??? I don`t know. You can`t control what`s happening at home. Don`t let your grades drop. That`s one thing you do have control over and can be very proud of. I know it will be difficult at first, but all of this stuff will pass. Just ignore these boys when they touch you and eventually they will stop if you feel you can`t involve an adult. Focus on the really cute guy that`s flirting with you. You won`t be a fool. Don`t worry, but NO TOUCHING!!!! Hope this helps. Good Luck, Honey!
2007-04-30 00:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are having a tough time and your so young. You need to tell these boys to keep there hands off if they don't stop tell a teacher or slap the whiz out of them, as for people talking about you don't let it bother you it will happen for the rest of your life thats just peoples way to deal with there jeoluse. If there talking about you there leaving someone else alone. As for your parents if you can talk to them and just ask them that you have a right to know and then go from there. Just remember the best thing about life is change and won't always be this way. Hang in there sweety and good luck.
2007-04-30 00:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first. First you tell these boys grabbing you to stop, and stop now. If they continue to grab, you notify your teacher and if nothing is done notify your principal, and Name Names of these boys. People do not do that in society, it is assault. I am sorry about your parents. You need to talk with the school counselor. It is NOT your fault that your parents are acting the way they are. I am sure it is uncomfortable for you. You need to let mom know how this is affecting you and your grades. You cannot stop a divorce but there are ways to cope, and you need help in finding them. I hope you have someone besides your folks that you can talk to. Your minister, or priest, school counselor, a friends mom, are just a few suggestions. You are too young to let this ruin your life. I hope you can get back to your studies, it is important to your future. Good luck, honey. Hang in there, OK?
2007-04-30 00:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Moody Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to get mad at someone because they touch your butt. don't let them keep doing it. if you say don't you have to mean don't and if they keep doing it you have to tell one of the teachers... if you don't want them to touch your butt but you wont tell the teacher don't even tell them to stop just try to flip their hands away, they will just think its a game if you don't do something about it.
About the cute guy that is flirting with you, if you like him maybe give him a wink, but don't keep looking too long to make a fool of yourself, just give him occasional glances.
About the grades and the parents, just keep your head low. Its really hard when your parents hate eachother, just remember to NEVER blame yourself...
Hope this helps. Good Luck in middle school
2007-04-30 00:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are havinga tough time.Try and talk to a counsellor about some of the issues that you are facing.Talk to yourparents.They need to know how you are feeling because the divorce affects you.Take one day at a time.Noon e has the right to touch you inappropiately and tell someone you feel comfortable with.
2007-04-30 00:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly if a guy is touching your butt and your'e NOT dressed like you want it, (be honest now!) just look at him, do an exaggerated shiver and say 'EErrrgh' and walk away. His pride will be hurt, he'll prob be angry but it'll shut him up for a while. if your only 11, he'll be weak as piss anyway! It's a good time to start 'the new you' (If that doesnt work just punch him in the head -find a BIG friend first- only recommended in drastic measures.) If people are talking about you confront them, ask them 'WHAT WAS IT YOU WERE SAYING ABOUT ME?-preferably in front of all their friends!) most bullys freak out when you confront them, thats why they are bullys. Because they are gutless cowards. They couldnt fight their way out of a paper bag! They rely on your reaction to fuel their bravado. Just react REALLY CALMLY......be extra polite back to them. Tell them you like their shirt or that her hair looks pretty today! That stops em dead everytime. (most will secretly **** themselves). You don't need to be aggressive, you will have far better results if you speak monotone and give them 'Doc Neeson (mad as a cut snake) eyes'. Be extra nice. Not like your'e crawling nice, a mad calm....bring it on kinda nice' Dont act tough! The calmer you are the less interested they become..Bullys will give up pretty quickly if you get them wondering. Secondly- my parents divorced when i was 3, actually thats a lie- mum walked out and never came back. I was sx abused @ 4yrs, had 2 near rapes(cause i was dressed like a tart) i have been bullied, but it didnt last long. most of them ended up trying to be friends. Get your books back out and go hard. They are the ones that will be working in McDonalds @ the age of 22.
Lifes not easy, **** HAPPENS! get over it! How you end up is entirely up to you and your new 'mental strength'. if all the above fails......just send me their names lol.....ps ..dont go near the 'cute guy' he will end up anhilating any self worth you ever had...TRUST ME!
2007-04-30 01:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 04:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to a teacher...perhaps a favourite teacher who you get along with pretty well? Or maybe a close relative other than ure parents?
2007-04-30 00:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a really big problem.
all of that will pass, don't give up.
2007-04-30 00:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋