If a woman says that she has been waiting all her life for u and everything is perfect, why would she need a break ? Is there such a thing as being too perfect ? all girls say they want someone to sweep them off their feet, but y is it when they get swept, they bug out - does it scare them that they been looking all their life, and now its finally in front of them ? could this also be a test to see if ur serious about being with them forever? when u look at the situation it is kind of scary to know that u met ur soulmate, but some girls handle it different - like my girl, who just called me out of no where and said she needed time for herself - this all 1 days after she told me she wants to be with me forever - married, kids, etc (we have had this conversation many times before as well) - is it possible to be that scared that u run away from a great relationship ?
2007-04-30 09:17:54 · 3 answers · asked by anthony c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oks.. the first 2 times my husband said something real i freaked and treated it as a joke- and we were serious about each other from the very beginning.
Then one day i sat on the stairs of my house and began.. what he ... turns out to be drunk..... gets crippled..etc ..dies suddenly..etc and only when i had sorted myself out was i ready . Still I kept thinking (for 2 long years) that he could die and leave me alone..
Sometimes it is not easy.. specially nowadays when most marriages turn into divorces and kids are left with new step-parents,etc.. it is not easy to take a desicion that you want to follow through till the end of your life.
The fact that your girlfriend wont take this decision lightly speaks highly of her and when she does take her decision you will be 100% sure that she thought of it throughly and is completely prepared.
If she shrinks, it is the best time for her to analize her feelings and her fears -confront them-and solve them now , not after comitting herself.
2007-04-30 12:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by ss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-04-30 09:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha! I'm sad to say that I have bingo wings already, just waiting for the rest to start drooping as well!
2016-05-17 11:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋