what should i do about this jerk?

Question

should i stay mad at this guy for insulting me and hurting my feelings after i confessed my crush to him....after i told him i liked him he said well sorry im interested in someone else i told him it was ok that i should probably find an older guy but that id still like to be friends he got mad for some reson or annoyed and said i was immature and childish and that i delt with the whole crush situation very very immature im like well hello im a sixteen year old girl and your no better than i am your even more immature i also told him that if thats the way he thinks of me that hes no friend of mine...i wanted to ask him to prom but as you can probably tell thats out of the question...hes a dick and ive realized that now i just have to find a guy to go with me to make him jealous were not talking right now this happened saturday night and so i feel shitty because he made it so clear he liked me it was like wow obvious other wise i wouldnt have told him i liked him what a jerk any advice

not even you got it all wrong i said it was ok that i still wanted to be friends so hes like ok i started joking around how girls at school all date older men i JOKINGLY said maybe i should try that thats when he started saying yeah well you need to mature hes not even dating anyone he just said hes interested in someone else like i care that much he immature hes basically a nerd i shouldnt feel bad because he said he liked someone else i cant care less i wish him the best of luck im should go smoke pot now

ok whatever i understand i still dont know why most of you are making me seem like the bad guy hes the one that started sh!t he took my jokes up the @ss thats not my fault im moving on hes cheap,boring, ungreatful after i was super nice to him i should take his insults and the way he was basically laughing at me when i told him i liked him hes the immature one i was just being honest with him and he had to make me seem like a stupid btch fck that im not taking it

Answer 1

Why do you care about making him jealous if you don't like him.

He got mad at you, probably, because you were probably a little snotty when you said that you would date someone older anyway. You said you had a crush on him, then he said that he was sorry but he was interested in someone else (honest, forthright and appropriate answer), and then you responded by insulting him (basically telling him that he was too young for you anyway).

You probably were being a little immature. Remember, people have a right to date who they want to date, and it is not a reflection on you if someone doesn't want to date you. Nobody is liked or loved by everyone.

Move on, and be kind.

Answer 2

Let it go.

From your description, he doesn't sound like a jerk. After he told you openly that he can't date you, you've exchanged direct or indirect insults and called each other immature: you said it first that you probably should date an older guy. To him, it sounded like you called him immature just because he's dating someone else. Then he exploaded and said you're immature. And so on. It was just an argument.