You know I'm so sick of girls who think they can use a nice guy and expect him to love them always. When they go out and date others and expect to come back to the nice guy. I've been in three situations where three "little" girls, I say little loosly cause thats what I think of them, little inmature girls, have loved my kind, respectfull, hard working, real character, but who have just been looking for a wild guy who would charm them off there feet. I admitt I'm not that charming, but I am honest, and I don't put on a "show!" I just want someone who will love me for who I am, and love God with all there heart, and be serious, have ambitions, and not expect a really charming, and witty guy. Someone simple. Is there such a person? Because I haven't met any...I'm not saying all girls are like this, just the ones I've been involved with, and you know what they don't deserve to be with me. I'm looking for class in a woman.
2007-04-30 09:50:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clear things up, I am not pushy, but I do show them affection and love them and am able to show it without being pushy, but I greatly respect them and there parents. I'm not perfect and I do make mistakes, but I try not to.
2007-04-30 10:00:02 · update #1
Stay away from those girls that are taking advantage of you. They don't deserve you--- and they will realize they made a mistake when they get tired of being taken advantage of themselves. There are nice girls out there. I know when you want something so bad -- it seems like it will never happen. But it will. You'll meet a nice girl when you least expect it. Hang in there.
2007-04-30 10:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a girl and i completely feel what you are saying. Girls do do that. They find a nice guy who really cares and loves them then leaves them for the bad-***-no-good-losers and its not fair for guys like you, but you just haven't found that classy woman yet. These girls who done you like that really helped you in away. They showed you what you do and don't want in a woman so when she finally comes along you will know it. Now simple girls don't to much exists anymore and your gonna have to make some compromises too... not every girl is perfect and the girl for you won't be perfect and thats ok, but maybe trying to be a little charming won't hurt. Honesty is a great quality to, but you have to lighten up sometimes and it sounds like your a little high strung. Losen up and add all the other qualities you say you possess and i bet you'll have no problem finding a girl to meet your standards.
2007-04-30 17:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by K@t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're hanging out with the wrong women. I personally really like nice guys. I just can't stand it when they become clingy and smother me with attention. There's nothing wrong with nice guys. I'm sure you'll find a woman who will appreciate you, but maybe your expectations are too high. Most women do want a charming guy who can make them laugh. Just be patient. I'm sure the right one will show up soon enough.
2007-04-30 16:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by elena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in a same situation as yours. I don't understand why all these girls I been involved with cheated on me. I trusted them, I expressed them my true feelings for them but eventually what all I got is just hurt. I was used so much, been played on with my feelings that I have reached a point where I can't trust a girl.
2007-04-30 16:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is somebody for everybody, just sometimes difficult to find.
however, you seem to be attracted to the wrong type of girls for you. also, you might want to work on the charming part since that is pretty easy (just being polite goes a long way).
2007-04-30 16:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound to good to be true, but girls like bad boys,your looking in the wrong place for that kind of girl maybe a coffee shop instead?By the way older women are more mature.
2007-04-30 16:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sheila D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women today want an "exciting" guy.
Nice,moral,hard working,etc guys are boooring.
I don't understand the excitement of a guy who beats women up but I have seen to many examples of women who didn't want to give up an "exciting" guy (not all "exciting guys beat up women but many seem to fit that.)
2007-04-30 17:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by robert p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mostly woman looking for a place where is little unwelcome!....or may beit depends whith the womans ones u choose they are not mature enogh.....and they worry of u beeing nice to them....or also my be ur too attach and u dont give them space to breath at the begining of ur relation,,... girls dont like much about that!
2007-04-30 16:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by shito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you rate for a classy woman ? Maybe you are shooting out of your league. But good luck finding that special someone.
2007-04-30 16:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we put out to much, and we do not get the same in return. Treat yourself don't cheat yourself playa!
2007-04-30 16:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by gogetta#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋