She was submissive, and then she decided that being a dominatrix would be better, but the thing is because of stuff in my past I dont llike to be submissive. So I just want to know how I act around her? Like no hugging or kissing her? Should I be cold around her?
2007-04-30 09:58:33 · 12 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should be respectful and quiet. Don't look at her, don't talk without being spoken too. If you're going to livein this scene, figure it out, boy
2007-04-30 11:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Submissive?
2007-04-30 17:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you don't "like" being a sub, you have a decision to make. you will have to leave Her if you can't obey Her. Call Her Mistress or the title She prefers. Be very polite and subservient. Ignore all other Females. Wait on Her and anticipate Her every wish. Be prepared for Her corrections if you screw up. You might buy Her some leather clothes and accessories.
If She wants to use bondage, then you better get used to it and start to like it. She may begin with spankings or toys that will restrict you and may cause some discomfort.
The important thing is always remember you are the sub, you are Hers to do with as She wants.
Good luck and enjoy . . .
2007-04-30 17:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by utob 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
BTW, remember that many times the submissive is actually the one who is in control/controls the situation, not the dominant one. To be a submissive, you are fulfilling her pleasure and her fantasies, thus are in control. Rather than "doing something to her" you are allowing her to explore. Many men have a problem with the word "submissive" but don't have a problem imagining being a woman's pleasure toy.
In day to day normal situations be chivalrous to her .
But in sex play, follow her initiation and what she desires versus what you think would make you score points.
2007-04-30 17:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Submissive, if you cant manage that then try respectful. She's in charge, she makes the moves, you don't do anything unless she says so, of course if she says that's only during playtime then be yourself.
2007-05-01 06:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some leather chaps and chains, make her dress up in her BDSM best and then have a BATTLE ROYALE for the title. (P.S. let her win the first time, next time you win)
2007-04-30 17:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you want. on aspect of that is no hugging/kissing, but this might be the end...
2007-04-30 17:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being a good and respectful boy
2007-05-01 03:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
strap her to the post of your bed, flip her around and whip her butt with a leash, she will love it (isnt that what dominatrix do?)
2007-04-30 17:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by just curious 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You should lick the heels of her boots...
2007-04-30 17:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Kia A 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋