don't know how to feel about this situation,but what happened was I met this guy, a few months ago, and he told me found me to be attractive, and a cool person to hang out with and to call him if I wanted to go out.I finally did, after a month of giving it some thought, and took him up on his offer, so the first things he says is that he's broke, and in a few weeks we'll hang out, then a few weeks past, and he tells me something came up, and he will let ME know when he has time, so a few months past, and I run into him again, and he asks me when is he gonna let him take me out, and he aplogizes says he's been going throguh some things, so we set a date, he calls me a few days later, and tells me he's had some deaths in the family, and when he runs into me again we'll aset another date,I run inot him again he doesn't brings it up, and he tells me that i should have came over to him and said Hello, and during the conversation he doesn't bring it up, so i bring it up he's still clamini
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After that I asked him to hang out again, and he's tells me oh well, I 'm going to this club to check out the atmosphere for this new gig I'm getting, and he told me that he's broke that's why he's taking on a second job, and he saying all this crap about when he gets on his feet, he's going to make it up too me...but then a few days alter I see him at the gym and he says nothing too me, we actually made eye contact and he rolled his eyes and never said nothing too me the entire time I was at the gym, so I text messaged him and asked him if I liked more than a friend, he says sorry he cant say that he does , even though he finds me to be attractive and cool, he's not interested in not pursuing a serious relationship with me, and the next day he changed his status to from single to "in a relationship" wow do i feel bad.
2007-04-30 11:20:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry but it sounds like it's not working out. It's not your fault.
2007-04-30 11:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, I would have seen flags poppin up all over the place just from reading your first scenario! You could almost be classified as a stalker. He doesn't even seem like the kind of guy I'd be trying to get if he keeps saying he's broke. It really seems like he was in a relationship and just blowing you off. In the future just put your radar up a little more!
2007-04-30 18:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by cutie_pie28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a real man not a child. I have seen so many cases of SMS on this web site I think it is becoming a national pandemic! (Selfish Man Syndrome) - Leave - find someone who will care for you and treat you as a person and not a project when he gets round to it.
2007-04-30 18:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen you posting this same story over and over again for weeks now. Admit it, it's made up - I can't imagine anyone could be so stupid as to not understand any part of "Sorry, but I'm not interested".
At least come up with a new story... geesh.
2007-04-30 18:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! this guy sounds really annoying. Forget about this one and MOVE ON. this guy seems like a big waste of time, thought and effort. You're worth more than that and deserve better.
2007-04-30 18:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by TinaSoWright 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Sounds like this guy was giving you mixed signals all over the place! Any guy who just wants to play mind games is not worth your time. Good luck!
2007-04-30 18:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by lady8cmd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy stopped short of telling you NO. Get the message. you should be glad that he didn't hit you up for money and other stuff. Seems like you don't want to be rejected.
2007-04-30 18:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just not that into you and he couldn't be making it any clearer. He should have told you straight up, but you should have taken a hint. If a guy wants to be with you, he will arrange his schedule to fit it. Or take you someplace free.
2007-04-30 18:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just didn't know how to be upfront with you. He may have been seeing someone else too at the same time he was making every excuse to blow you off. Forget about him!
2007-04-30 18:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by lola v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow he's a bratty dog he was expecting you to spend all your hard earn money on his sorry *** he is the lowest of low deeper than the dirt he's not worth your time move on hunny. keep it real and the peace within yourself.
2007-04-30 18:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. He's either not really into you or he can't get his act together. Sounds like he's on drugs and you don't need that in your life.
If he was really interested in you, he wouldn't have let months pass.
Nope. Move on. Dump and flush this turd.
A~
2007-04-30 18:27:13 · answer #11 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋