I got married at age 30 and divorced at age 35. Do you think I waited to long? I still want to be married.
2007-04-30 11:32:46 · 11 answers · asked by Douglas W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no best age for that.
Younger than 25 is too immature, older than 25 - you know better than that... LOL.
I'm joking. Any age older than 25 is good in my opinion. Why 25? It is almost arbitrary, but I feel before then you're still going through a lot of changes in your life and in your mind. If you marry say at 21 then you go like "wow, who the heck is that? she's not the girl I married" when you hit your 30s
2007-04-30 11:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with waiting too long is that the pool of available, quality women goes down sharply. You have to get lucky and find a divorcee who isn't so emotionally scarred, loaded down with family, or fixating her way out of a relationship (food, drama, etc.) so bad she can't reverse the field.
I am in your shoes at 43. I waited until 30, divorced at 31 with no kids, rushed to the next girl at 35 and had a horrible divorce at 41. DON'T THINK THERE'S A TIMETABLE. Go with the flow.
2007-04-30 18:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's so much the age as it is the maturity level. You can be 40 and not a mature adult. Marriage is serious, and you must be mature enough to handle the ups and downs of the relationship at any given time I believe in the institution of marriage, and want to be married soon also.
2007-04-30 21:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age has nothing to do with it, it's how a
person has matured and is willing to take on
the responsibilities and committment in a
marriage, and if both parties do not have
that then the marriage will never work.
2007-04-30 22:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not age........... it's commitment. My first marriage from 18-34 yrs old. Now married again. First wife didn't have the same commitment and had an affair.
2007-04-30 18:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready, there is no 'best age'. It depends on the maturity of the people in question and if they are ready to move their relationship up to the next level.
HTH : )
2007-04-30 18:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i do not beleive in marriage so in my case it will be at age 90 for companionship...but realistically speaking i would probably get engaged at 28 and probably get married at 30, that is if i ever find the one for me if it's in God's plan!
2007-04-30 18:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't matter what age because we all have to learn to get alone with each other right? see the good, bad and ugly side. keep the peace.
2007-04-30 18:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you just havent found the right person. when you find your soulmate you will know no questions or seconddoubts will even enter your mind.
2007-05-04 16:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its one of those things you have to play by ear
2007-05-04 17:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Laine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋