2007-04-30 19:25:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ryan F 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes and then it lasted for 8 years...
2007-04-30 19:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by lady26 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, but I've read that sometimes it's normal. My story is a little different, my husband and I are both in the Army and we didn't get married until we both got to Germany (we knew each other before that) and my "wedding" was a quick trip to the German courthouse after two-three weeks of waiting on paperwork....both in jeans and the left and had to run some errands!! So, I never got the attention and all that, but I'm extremely happy. Just remember, the wedding isn't about that one day, it's about the years and years after it.
2007-05-01 01:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wasnt depressed after I was married, I was very happy. if you are depressed after your wedding then maybe its something you shouldnt have done. maybe your depressed cause it wasnt the right time, and maybe you feel that things will change. everyone feels differently about marriage, and sad to say but marriage isnt for everyone. some people feel like actually being married is a tight bond and things in their life will change, and the thought of thinking your guy or girl time will dissapear or whatever else you use to do before marriage, it scares you and you get depressed. marriage really isnt bad if you sit and have a talk with your spouse and maybe talk about the things that bother you, trust me everything that you worry about, your spouse is probably worried about the same thing. its not the end of the world if your married, you make it what you make it and if you truly love the person your with, than anything should be worth the try.
2007-04-30 19:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by luvleebabygurl22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah. i was. i'd always wanted a day to feel extremely beautiful and be treated like a princess. it felt like forever that i waited to be able to wear my dress, and it was all over within a few hours! i missed the attention, the special moments that i can never get back again (walking down the aisle, preparing the morning of the wedding, saying good night the day before and knowing i won't see him again til the wedding, ....i could go on).. it all happened so fast, i wished i had something---more than just pictures and videos to experience it all over again..
2007-04-30 19:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Elle M. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BIG YES!
It's like pre- wedding jitters raised up all your emotions only to find out that there is no pot at the end of the rainbow. I am still depressed until. And it only keeps on getting worse.
2007-04-30 20:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by LIA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. The wedding day was just one day, but we were totally looking forward to a long and happy marriage. So far, so good... over 17 years.
2007-04-30 23:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm why would you be. If you just got married and your already depressed then i think you made a serious mistake.
Now i have been married 12 years and i wouldnt go as far as saying my marriage depresses me but some of the bumps in the road have.
2007-04-30 19:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by pandabr74 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes I was very depressed and wondered if I had just done the right thing and all and leaving a family I wish I had stayed with.
2007-04-30 19:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I was big time, Thats why weddings have to be perfect... so you can reflect and say I was sooo beautiful to boost your self esteem and think about all the wonderful things on that day.
2007-04-30 19:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. A. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was. Then I was depressed for the next 14 years. Then we got divorced. It was much better then.
2007-04-30 19:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I was actually relieved. I was afraid that my father-in-law and my mother-in-law's husband were going to have a fistfight at my reception, so once that didn't happen and everyone got through the event unscathed I could finally relax.
2007-04-30 19:41:23 · answer #11 · answered by n2mama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋