i like this guy and i kinda get the vibe that he likes me. should i go ahead and make the first move or should i wait?
2007-04-30 18:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think guys are much more afraid of rejection. Go ahead and ask, otherwise you may never know.
Good luck
2007-04-30 18:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is afraid of rejection. We tend to take it as a condemnation of our character, our personality, our very being. But that's obviously not true. If I'm rejected it doesn't mean I'm no good, it only means that some person hasn't related to me the way I related to her. Trouble is, sometimes we tend to make a major investment, emotional investment in someone before we really know how they feel about us. That's where it becomes scary. After we've made the emotional investment and get turned down it hits harder. But then that's life. So go for it. If it hurts you know it isn't really a condemnation of you. You are still you, just as wonderful, just as perfect, just as spectacular as you always have been. Rejection only means that he doesn't have good eyesight, good brains or good anything if he passes up such a great woman as you. And, if he is not interested, you're better off without him anyway. Go for it.
2007-04-30 18:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid go ahead and make the first move, some guys like that.
2007-04-30 18:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one likes rejection but guys can be a bit stronger than girls that means they can stand being rejected . but girls can't .
and about this guy that you think he likes you . I think you shouldn't go ahead . wait until he makes the first move .
2007-04-30 18:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are more afraid of rejection than women, but they would never admit to it.
Do not pass up the opportunity. When you make the move remember to smile. It tends to soften the moment and work wonders.
2007-04-30 18:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On this, I'd have to say we are even, so if you want it to happen you should make the move. Most guys do get rejected from woman then women from guys.
2007-04-30 18:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes rejection, males and females alike fear it.
Those who can accept it and move on are those who should be looked up to in the relationship aspect at least.
Relationships and compatibility are a difficult thing to over come.
2007-04-30 18:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do women know about rejection anyway? a woman will walk in a room and men will ask her out but a man will walk in a room and unless he's a good looking buff and rich women will never be interested in him.
2007-05-01 05:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe we are cuz women want us to pursue them. the shy guys are very nervous about making a move and i still haven't done it in 3 dates not sure when i will. i will try to be patient and kiss her before she kisses me first. cuz last gf kissed me first. depends on the guy if he is shy or not and his situation with girls and his dating history. trust me we have more the fear of rejection. you kiss us it makes it easier on us. trust me.
2007-04-30 18:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋