i just really wanna know wtf causes guys to think that its OK 2 cheat on their gf. Seriously.
2007-04-30 18:09:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not all of them are that way sounds like he isint the one for you
2007-04-30 18:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little boys will be boys. I think an emotional bond and a commitment is much more fulfilling than the next thing that comes along. The thing is, although it is quite passè, the concept of "if it feels good, do it" is just a recognition of a fact of life, as far as males are concerned. Some males just won't settle for auto eroticism. I cannot make a value judgment either way, but in my opinion, a committed relationship can take you to a higher joy than a one night stand. Men are not the sharpest tack in the drawer, sometimes they need the help and guidance of a feminine mind that sees things on a deeper level. So, don't take a passive stance, do something about this sad state of affairs when it comes to the mindset of your average testosterone-driven boy friend.
2007-05-01 01:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated in college because I wanted to experience all I could. It's not an excuse, but I really wanted to get it out of my system. It's a few years later, I am more mature, and wouldn't even think of cheating on my fiancee. She's hot and we have a good thing going. I grew up.
2007-05-01 01:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by NightTrainWooWoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not OK for anyone to cheat, guys or girls...
In 1955, 25% of women and 50% of men cheated.
In 2005, 75% of women and 50% of men cheated..
Birth Control & Feminism has released the true woman...
2007-05-01 01:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are cheaters.If a man cheat to his gf or wife,is simple because he does not love that woman,and he never will love her,and he never will respect her.it is clear as a crystal water.Never is ok to cheat (for both men and women).
2007-05-01 01:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reasons womens cheat. Theres no one set reason why people cheat. Not all cheaters think that its Ok. If they do, they are just trying to make themselves feel good about doing it.
2007-05-01 01:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by pecanchew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys cheat because they are just tempted by other women. They will never even try if they know in the first place that they will never score.
Why don't you ask this instead...
Why do some women love to hook up with guys who are trully committed?
2007-05-01 01:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by LIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, because the girlfriends and wives cheat all the time. Just read the rest of this column.
2007-05-01 01:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly what makes anyone cheat. Both guys and girls are guilty of it. They always think the grass is greener on the other side and never realize that someone still has to mow the lawn.
2007-05-01 01:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We might think something crazy like "no one will get hurt if no one knows." We rationalize to get what they want. But if you want to know the really crazy truth we are not thinking about anything! The attraction reaches a breaking point and it just becomes instinctual. If he does it a second time then he doesn't love her like he should.
2007-05-01 01:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they can and there are plenty of women out there who dont care if he is in a relationship. It really is an age thing and eventually they (men and women) may experience the pain of being rejected and decide they wouldn't like to hurt you in that way ever again. ...if your lucky!
2007-05-01 01:18:00 · answer #11 · answered by dogluvngranny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋