2007-04-30 18:10:34 · 17 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some guys are pretty sneaky. sometimes you never know.
but normally he blows you off or he just doesnt act himself.
2007-04-30 18:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jaci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding out is easy, but the hard part is that you really don`t want to know. Cheating and guilt go hand-in-hand, so you should watch for signs that`s suddenly out of character for him. This usually comes in the form of "spontaneous gifts; over-affectionate when with you;" or anything else that only YOU would know. If you have a girl friend you really trust, get her to run a "flirt" test on him, and note the reaction. If all else fails, have an affair yourself. He may still be cheating, but you won`t feel half as bad.
2007-04-30 18:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by catsrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole cheating thing is silly--you aren't married--if you think he is a cheat--find a guy who is truthful, honest and respectful--what makes you think he is cheating??? Are you just being a jealous girl?? If you are, you are troubled--if you have a strong suspicion without proof--then maybe he is and it is NOT worth it--so make a change for the better--do not stay with a lying cheat--you can do better. If you stay--you will always be miserable--girls who stay are as troubled as the cheater is.
2007-04-30 18:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough. First, are you certain about your feelings? For one thing, if you start questioning him and spying on him, he finds out and it turns out he was not cheating on you your relationship will probably be over anyways.
I really dont know how to tell you to find out, but just make certain you have good hard evidence before you confront him. Because if it turns out he wasnt cheating on you then you will be the bad person in the end.
2007-04-30 18:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes cheating on you and you think he just had sex with some girl before, ask him for sex and if he questions it then he cheated if your doing it then hes not, if thats doesnt make you feel happy, get one of your friends to follow him around and spy
2007-04-30 18:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has the guy ever given you a reason to think that he's cheating? if he hasn't then don't go looking for one, cos you'd just succeed in driving him away with your paranoia
2007-04-30 18:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to wonder if he is cheating on you, why is he your boyfriend?
2007-04-30 18:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by jazz_boi_76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! sam.
One of the major parts to a relationship is trust without it you have nothing.
Ask what it is that brought about your mistrust in him.
Was there something he did or said.
Talk with him.
Take care!
2007-04-30 18:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and talk to him, listen to what he has to say and tell him your concerns.
Balance out the responses and make your choices based off them.
2007-04-30 18:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he always turns down offers to go somewhere with you. When he starts talking to you about relationships.
2007-04-30 18:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by ..☆..вяєαкιηg нєαятѕ..☆.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋