im single and i was starting to talk to this girl on msn i herd she likes me but im not sure if i like her , we only started to talk for about 10 mins and i was told by her m8 (who gave me her addy) that she wanted to met up with me tonight the same night that we started to talk im not sure about her yet she is 16 and im 19 , but i dont realy want to be single and i dont have a job to pay for stuff
2007-04-30 22:23:45 · 20 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
iam trying to get a job
2007-04-30 22:31:55 · update #1
Meet someone your own age.
2007-04-30 22:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you could both start out as friends 2 begin with and get 2 know her first before u make any decisions.Meet up with each other and go to places that r free like the park or the transport museum art gallery.The weather is starting 2 get really good so u can even take a picnic 2 the beach.If none of these places take your fancy go 2 your local tourist information and find out what they`v got 2 offer thats cheap or free.
2007-04-30 22:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by face ache 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Steady yourself, find yourself a job, maybe go out clubbing once you have money and you might find someone your own age. Remember she might not be on the same maturity level as you, and..things can get difficult when you date someone alot younger than you. And if you're desperate to be with her, just wait a few years till she's grown up.
2007-04-30 22:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rach81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie....if you want to be single, then don't meet this girl...it's too soon...try and find a job first, and i am sure you are making the effort....but if you want to be single...then just tell this girl that you don't want to meet her...she's very young so that makes her immature....live a little first....get a good job and then find a decent girl who's not so young...the world is your oyster hun...make the most of it and don't be tied down with some little teenage girl...if your not sure about her then just give it a miss...
2007-04-30 22:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a chat curiosity man!!she is a baby yet and in these days,the curiosity is big,specially when you talk to someone you can't see.Go to meet her and invite her to a simple drink or an ice cream,only for talking and laughing;after that,you can decide what to do.
good luck
2007-04-30 22:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track by assessing your situation before you make any decision.
We are cultural products. We are culturally brainwashed to have a job that can pay for this and that before we look out for mates.
2007-04-30 22:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by hananimsarang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. The age gap is quite big, but being a girl who has dated a older guy, why not just go on a date to see how things go? If you both are into each other, great! If not, then just stay online IM friends.
2007-04-30 22:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, first step is getting to know each other, before going to any relationship...further it will help you... and dont be in a hurry there are always possible answers and solution for every question and problem..
2007-04-30 22:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by shekinah_78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your sh.t together m8. Get a job, and set some goals for your life, then maybe someone other than a highschool girl may take an interest in your sorry ***.
2007-04-30 22:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by i8thr2 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go get a job then you are in a position to be more sociable....a social life aint free you know!
2007-04-30 22:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by vampini 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋