Why do women almost always get away with cheating but men get caught pretty much all the time?

Question

Women are excellent liars of course, from all the practice, naturally very sneaky and also continually suspicious.

Men on the other hand are trusting idiots who couldn't lie straight in bed.

Is the great disparity at which men and women are caught out cheating all down to the fact that men are idiots?

Answer 1

I think women treat cheating as some sort or harlequin cladestine affair. We (for the most part) make sure to tie up all the loose ends as to add to the torridness / intrugue.

Where as men seem to go "hey, a peice on the side...NOICE! (yes, noice). "

And well...yes, we are better liars.

Answer 2

Men have more revealing body language when they are telling lies than women do, but I am an honest person and believe that the truth is always best no matter how hard it may be to swallow.

Not all women cheat and not all men cheat either, it comes down to the individual however when faced with a situation that a person decides to lie his or her way out of, men biologically are not equipped to get away with it as well as a women.
Personally I think women have better imagination than men and considering the lie comes from the part of the brain which enables and controls imagination, women can hold their body language less stress-fully because drawing upon their imagination comes more naturally to them where as men find it more difficult to draw upon the imagination thus inducing stress on the brain which causes their body language to react in a defensive and revealing way.lol Well at least this is true of my partner anyway lol

Answer 3

I guess it's just because women are so smart :p

Nah, all cheating is wrong, it's just that women feel so guilty they try to pretend nothing happened, whereas it always comes out of men eventually. Also, they're not as good at hiding it...telling us we put the lipstcik on the shirt isn't the smartest excuse.

I did email you about this, but I guess you didn't get it

I'm sorry women lie so much...I feel bad just thinking about what we do sometimes

Answer 4

Sounds like you have been hurt recently? You seem very angry and bitter! I think men and women cheat for different reasons. I dont think it has anything to do with women being sneaky or men being idiots. Its more to do with the type of person you are. And lack of communication between the couple. Dont let who/what ever hurt you eat away at the person you are. Not everyone cheats and you cant tar everyone with the same brush. Everyone is different.

Answer 5

Even though I wouldn't agree about women being sneaky and all of that, I agree that IF they do something, it is less likely that they would be caught. Women in nature have the eye for minor details, and if they have enough time they can almost bury every trace, even the one that stays on our face, the look. They can be calm and we would never notice, and be hysterical when the want to!

Answer 6

There actually is an answer to this, but too long to write here, read a book by Alan and Barbara Pease called "Why Men don't Listen and Women can't read Maps" the answer is in there

Answer 7

I think it's because men believe the women in their lives can't manage without them, and so they can do anything they want. Afterall, their woman loves them..so, the man can do whatever he wants.

Women, however, know that there are some things love just isn't going to forgive. So, they are more careful about it.

I wouldn't say men are idiots, I'd just say they have some delusions about women.

Answer 8

Years ago I used to think it was only men who cheated, but now I realize it's equal, both cheat just the same, both get caught the same, both are equally tricky, both do stuff if they aren't happy in their relationship, if they aren't with the right person. It's sad that you are seeing women in a bad light; if you're unhappy perhaps there's something "you" need to upgrade in yourself, and then look for "ms right" and not just "ms anyone".

Answer 9

Not only is it more common for men to cheat, it is due to the fact that 90% of the gray matter between the two selective hearing devices on the sides of their heads is focused on the penis, and the reason that men get caught more often is because they cheat more often--lying has nothing to do with it,-- stupidity and the complete failure at being capable of a rational thought process has to do with it and THAT is why men get caught so often!!!

Answer 10

nobody gets away from Cheating,if You Lied you Will be caught,No matter whether its a Man or A Woman.

Man Cheats for many reasons for insecurity,jealousy,willy problems,infidelity,immaturity,mess about etc

Women cheat about lack of getting her man's happiness,pleasure,closeness,disrespect from her partner ,his jealousy,etc

Men like showing off their Cheating because to show their Superiority over Female gender But in fact he is the Biggest Fool out ,playing his dirty game.

Females do Cheat when she is firstly and fore mostly not happy with her partner,she is not satisfied with him,he doesn't bother of her disrespects her,doesn't love her and show his affection,etc
The distraction and detachment messes up both the male and females feelings and thats when They Cheat about.

Blame No One,Its Matter Of Lack Of Love Both Sides.