2007-04-30 22:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by bushman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends on if u can forgive her, or if she even wants forgiveness. the road to forgiveness may be a long one, just depends on if she wants to reconcile the marriage, or if u do. personally divorce is never a good idea, if u can work it out. it would depend on if this is a first time thing, or if this is a pattern of behavior from her. only u can answer it, based on her attitude about this.
2007-04-30 23:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the ball is in your court my friend. What you do, what your decision is, your going to have to live with it.
How long have you been married? have you any children? is this your first marriage? lot's of questions. then, why ? she has to have an answer here.
Is she tired of you ? fallen out of love ? just wanted to see if the grass was greener ? or just being stupid, this is the most likely question given by most people that have had affairs.
Another serious question, most people that have had affairs, will have another one within five years. Are you willing to bet the odds?
You will forgive but, you won't forget. It's hard, it will come up again and again through he years if you last that long. The alternative is divorce, think about it. There's no in between.
2007-05-01 05:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my grand mother said, it is acceptable if men are unfaithful to there wife but a wife being so unfaithful is unacceptable.wife is the light of your house and you is the foundation of the house. if there is no light how will you see things right.you must better broke up with her, if shes being so unfaithful, she will be unfaithful in the future. what if she will get pregnant? are you sure it's yours. think twice dear. accept that feelings has changed, and maybe her feeling and the magic between you has been gone.you have to let her go. and she'll comes back make sure that shes back because she loves you not just using you.
2007-05-01 06:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by angelruth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced mine,and we started dating again and she had to earn my trust back,which took a very long time.I guess it all depends on wheather she's willing to try and how much you love her.But she was always afraid that i was gonna pay her back.It' rough,but can be a good thing if you both make it one.
2007-05-01 08:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by 8seconds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be difficult, if you really truly love her, then you may want to tell her. Let her know that you know and that you love her. Tell her you want to work things out and ask her what it is that she needs from you. Talk to her about why she is seeking for love elsewhere. This may help you on your decision. If she is truly sincere in your marriage and sorry for what she is doing then she'll be open to talk to you about it. If she's not, then you may want to let her go because it's going to mean more heartache for you.
So sorry, I know what its like, trust me!!!! I had to let mine go because of this. I hope everything works out for you!
2007-05-01 06:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well? if she is still being on faithfull? hire a privte eye to track her and get pictures of her being un faithfull,then file for a divorce. its better this way and dnt be just blaming the guy she is doing it with! its not his fault its hers.and if she does it once? she'll do it again!
2007-05-01 05:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by fcknwhtguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on whether you want to keep her as your wife.
2007-05-01 05:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know what i did,i told her to leave,and she did,now my life is 300per cent better,shes a troll and you be better off without her,go find someone with better morals you will be happier
2007-05-01 05:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by CARL P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"wife" is a name of woman who is yours wholly
and if it is not like that then there is no wife no relation.
u r cheated urself man'
2007-05-01 06:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Saba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. It's your decision. Plain and simple.
2007-05-01 05:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by cassievanhooser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋