2007-04-30 22:25:24 · 6 answers · asked by hooks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know its possible to be turned on by your wife and not be in love with her. hell you could be turned on by lots of other peoples wives.
hope this helps
2007-04-30 22:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mark J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly. Love and sexual attraction are two totally diffferent things.
Let's be real honest, time is not kind to people. There are going to be extra pounds, saggy anatomy, grey hair, wrinkles, and you just aren't going to stand up to gravity all that well.
Sexual attraction doesn't last. Love, however, can and sometimes does. You don't have to be "turned on" to love and adore the person you married.
2007-05-01 06:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. This is a more progressive love as the first steps of love (passionate and romatic) are replaced with a more deeper and mature love which looks past the physical attributes and sexual urges. this love is stronger as its foundation is based on friendship, and companionship and not sex. sex u can get it anywhere, but this kind of love? rarer than diamonds
2007-05-01 05:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by john inquisitive 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you learn to accept her in a new and different way. Appreciate the things she does for you, not what she looks like.
2007-05-01 05:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by naejplman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's fair to your wife or to yourself. no, this is not love. if you don't feel it in your heart, you won't feel it elsewhere.
2007-05-01 05:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Eden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is what Porn, swingers clubs, internet and singles bars are for...plus a lot of the girls on here!......just be discrete, what she does not know will not hurt her.
2007-05-01 05:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋