Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

Dis boii..i really like Is like done talking to me forever! n i dont know what to do... :( He told me las night dat he doesnt wanna talk to me anymore he made me believe his lies n everything....he made me soo happy...n he knew he did! know it has fallin apart I finally saw da real him n it hurts me..he pretended the whole tyme! he t0ld me yesterdai that he wants me...Wtf! he has a gf...buh he doesnt want me like dhat he jus wants me jus for a ''hookup'' im only 14...N he is 18...he had me bawlin las night..becuz i thought he cared i miss him calling me Chowderhead lolz my nickname his is gummybear hah!..buh i miss him alot :( n i cant get over him Todai i told him i love you..n only u he is like dont tell me that my heart belongs to some else even if she doesnt care! wth he treats me like crap plz help me im dying here thanks!!!

2007-05-03 14:22:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 14:22:06 · 46 answers · asked by angeleyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

allright i met this girl at a party about 4wks ago and me and her hit it off right from the start. Then the following week i found out some thing that kinda was very crazy, i found out that me and her were born in the same city, in the same hospital, on the same month, in the same year, and she was born one day behind me, plus we met out here in Oklahoma, but we were born in Memphis, TN!!!! Her grandfather is a baptist preacher, so is my grandfather, her uncle is a preacher, so is my uncle. And there is alot of other things that me and her have in common. I think that we are meant to be together .When we are together she is all over me and i am all over her. But the only thing that scares me is that when we met she was with some other guy, and she cheated on him with me. So i was wondering if she cheat on me even though how-well we are doing together. plz help

2007-05-03 14:21:13 · 10 answers · asked by some dude 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my ex spent this weekend together, we arent trying to get back together as a couple, we're just trying to be friends for now and if anything happens so be it. well we both agreed that we'd be casual about the whole thing, i dont call him everyday and he doesnt call me everyday because thats one reason why we broke up bc he felt like i was smothering him. so he added me back to his myspace or whatever, and i have guys on my myspace and he has girls on his. well i saw that he was online and i sent him a message, and he told me that i couldnt be smothering him all the time and that i wasnt serious about him anyway bc i had a bunch of guys leaving me comments! thats the first time i tried to contact him since we hung out this weekend! how is that smothering him? dont friends message each other? we broke up in oct and we've only seen each other maybe 5 times since oct ... and this weekend was the first time we had hung out as friends. whats his deal? HELP!!

2007-05-03 14:21:06 · 7 answers · asked by Manda P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 14:19:03 · 15 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 14:18:40 · 12 answers · asked by Caribou 6 in Singles & Dating

If you live near your mom and she is alone on mother's day because her husband works far away, but you are married and have children, who do you devote your time to? One wants help cleaning out her basment all day, which the other does not want to spend her day doing.

2007-05-03 14:18:09 · 22 answers · asked by so.good 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I graduated high school just about a year ago and moved onto college. A lot of my friends did too and while Im still in touch with a few I can tell the friendships are fading and they are all making new friends in their new paths but I dont seem to be - in college everyone seems to keep to themselves and their groups and Im looking for the close friendships like the ones I've lost but with new people. How do you make new friends as an adult?

2007-05-03 14:18:08 · 5 answers · asked by radiancia 6 in Friends

I am a smaker &, before i went to sleep, i put my smoke out. It was the only butt in the ashtray. When i woke up this morning, i couldnt find the ashtray. Then, i saw it at the bottom of my bed, on my bed & now, there were 2 butts in it. Now, even scarier is the way it had been put out. I just basically bend it over & press down until its out. THIS other butt was all kinked & stubbed out. I didnt do it. I checked the house for evidence that someone else had been here but, it was clear that there was no possibility that anyone had been here. NOTHING had been touched & the doors & windows were as i left them. Im mysterfied. Cant someone possibly give me a genuine answer to this? My paranoia is that someone close to me may have died & came to say their final Good bye but, maybe im just over analyzing.

2007-05-03 14:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This is a picture of my boyfriend. Post pictures of your guys if you have any :)

http://i13.tinypic.com/4zvz62c.jpg

2007-05-03 14:17:11 · 26 answers · asked by hotgirl14209 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i see each other every sundays, nd that wud only happen if i travel by train for 2hrs jst to get to him. (weekdays are just through txt nd call) we've been 2gether for about a month now, sumthing already happened between us, nd that took place on the 2nd week of r meeting. at first my plan was to just play around... but i fell in love too soon. he told me loves me 2 but i thnk he dont. he tells me he's busy evryday thts y he cant call me. so i took the resposibility 2 call him evryday but he's also too busy to answer it. he cant even send me a message not unless sunday is coming of course asking me if im gonna visit him amd saying sweet nothings. and i always fall for that!... friends gave warnings frm d start but i was hoping theres a chance 4 him 2 lyk me, even if we have diff nationality. im already 21 and he's just 19. i cnt bliv sum1 younger than me is hurting me now... help me.... what shud i do?

2007-05-03 14:17:08 · 7 answers · asked by uhu... 1 in Singles & Dating

When my bf and I go out, he gets a little moody when I pay for things. This usually happens when he mentions he's strapped for cash so I tell him that I'll pay. I don't see the big deal, it's not happening every time and I don't seem him as any less of a "man" because of it.

2007-05-03 14:15:47 · 8 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean if they like her why wait?

2007-05-03 14:15:42 · 10 answers · asked by pks9797 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughters were flowergirls recently at a wedding and I thought it was customary for the bride to give them a small gift. I know I did when I was married. I know the bridesmaids all were given a bracelet. I did not mention it to the kids, so luckily they were not expecting it anyway. I just thought it was the done thing. Dont people do this anymore?
And is it usual for flowergirls to sit at bridal table or are they usually stuck up the back behind everyone so nobody can see them? They were not even taken away for the photos. One cant help but wonder why they even had flowergirls. They did not get ready or arrive with the bride, I did their hair, dressed them and delivered them to the venue. Someone came and got them when the bride was ready for them. It just all seems weird to me.

2007-05-03 14:15:24 · 17 answers · asked by bluegirl6 6 in Weddings

well if u answer my last couple of questionz u no dat i've been hurt well idk y but i took him back but i think he really means it now am i dumb or in love???

2007-05-03 14:13:16 · 3 answers · asked by hanna l 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a white boyfriend and we have been going out for almost 2yrs now. We both meet in school and we spend nonstop time together, even at work. We have became so involved in each others lives that we don't know how to separate even if we tired. We both feel that we are right for each other; however, my whole family is against it. They would like for me to find someone indian.
Let me tell you more about the past. This guy comes from a family where his parents passed away when he was 9yrs old and was raised by his grandmother. He has gone thru a lot, and all he wants in life is a family to call his own. He is one of the most loving and carring individual I have ever met. My family is a tipcal indian family, but we have no relatives in america. We have a few friends, but no one that we can look for support on.
I am fustrated because of this situtation. I did not go out looking for an white guy, it just happened! All I want to know is should I take my family side, or the person I love?

2007-05-03 14:11:31 · 33 answers · asked by mny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so connected to my best boy friend.. I like him a lot.
I am also married and love my husband alot.
I feel that I am love both of them alot. any advice or suggestion?

2007-05-03 14:10:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need to know honestly. When u and your significant other fight, even to the point of separation, do u just forget about her or do u actually care for her but are unwilling or unable to express your feelings?

And....for those men who feel the need to say mean things to their women.......do u mean the things u say or are u actually hurting inside and just say them so u can hurt your woman too?

I have alot riding on this. My ex bf has attempted to make contact and I need to know exactly what I am dealing with.
Explain to me the complex way a man of such stubborness thinks?
I cant figure it out......I need your help to see what hes trying to say and do and to understand him a little better. He is unable to tell me because he is the one involved.
However, someone who can remain anonymous, I am hoping will spill their guts and let us girls in on some of the things that will help us to understand your ways a little better.
Thanks men!!!!!!

2007-05-03 14:09:48 · 13 answers · asked by Truth Teller 5 in Singles & Dating

I got my old crush phone number today. I called him I talk and talk so much. I do have feeling for him. I feel like calling him again and telling him how I really feel right now between me and him. I want to ask him what happen why didn't you tell me you like me as a friend or you like me too. I gave him a card over the holidays but he never answer my question I told him I liked him on the card but he said thanks for the gift the card he did not even say anything. He still did not say anything about the card

2007-05-03 14:09:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, so a girl likes you..would you rather have
*Her write you a note, saying that she likes you etc.
Or
*Have one of her friends tell you
Would you perfer one or the other, or would you really care, aslong as you knew that she liked you?

2007-05-03 14:09:25 · 5 answers · asked by xoxo7 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend been brocken up 5 months today he said that he dont like me but he alwyas looks at me. I always think bout him and he said that there was a reason why we broke up. he told me to but wouldnt tell me the third one cause i would be mad. but then first two are all lies. I dont talk to him because i am afraid. and i really like him and always think about him. i dont know if i should make him jelous like i always do? tell him how i still feel? do i tell him that i shoudl be forgave and be givin another chance? What shoudl i do please help me?

2007-05-03 14:08:53 · 1 answers · asked by bootychicka 1 in Singles & Dating

Together 1 yr. Because of the distance I feel he creates between us over the last 4mos, I distance myself. Talking to him seems futile. He gives every excuse for not addressing the issue. So he doesn't call for a few days, I wont return several of his calls. He doesnt make time to see me, I dont make myself immediately available when he wants to see me weeks after the last time. Am I the jerk here?

2007-05-03 14:08:35 · 1 answers · asked by Valley Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 14:08:26 · 10 answers · asked by nme85 1 in Singles & Dating

my grandma's husband, so like my step grandpa (whom iv known since i was lil so he is basicly my grandpa) had to go in today and get open heart surgery. they dont know if he is goin to make it or not. i dont feel that sad. i mean, i know i should cause my grandpa might by dying. iv always had a good relationship with him and everything, he is a really good man and all i can think about is now my grandma can move back to ohio since she wont need to live in florida anymore (he needs speacial treatment only in florida). i feel selfish. is this normal?

2007-05-03 14:08:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Help.

2007-05-03 14:07:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 26 years old girI, who met a 40 years old guy, and I curious to learn how to deal with the age gap.

2007-05-03 14:07:54 · 14 answers · asked by Young girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is alot to ask, but I want to use this excerpt of Plato’s synopsis translated into Italian for my wedding invitation and program. Any help would be graciously appreciated:


We pass our whole lives together, desiring that we should be melted into one, to spend our lives as one person instead of two, and so that after our death there will be one departed soul instead of two; this is the very expression of our ancient need. And the reason is that human nature was originally one and we were a whole, and the desire and pursuit of the whole is called Love.

2007-05-03 14:07:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

That guy that i wrote about yesterday...called "How Can I?" Well i got to him good today but if somethin GOOD happens what am i supposed to expect out of a guy? How do you know if he is good or not? How do i kow i can trust him with anything? Like i said not soo good with the guys!!! SRY for askin soo much but please HELP!!!! He is bein REALLY NICE to me and he has messed with me alot today? Whats to expect and how do i know if he is flirting with me? How do i know all this? And i need info pronto he is coming back TONIGHT and dont know what to do!?!?!? HELP ME!!!

2007-05-03 14:06:27 · 11 answers · asked by softballchick10107 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a little brother that is so friken annoying that i just want to bash him. He picks his nose and sometimes he even eats the boogers. GROSS! what should i do!?!

2007-05-03 14:06:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a friend whose mother passed a way over a year ago( I didn't know him then) and I would like to know what is the correct way to interact with him, that will not make him feel upset, or uncomfortable in any way.

2007-05-03 14:04:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends