Am I the one who's wrong?

Question

Together 1 yr. Because of the distance I feel he creates between us over the last 4mos, I distance myself. Talking to him seems futile. He gives every excuse for not addressing the issue. So he doesn't call for a few days, I wont return several of his calls. He doesnt make time to see me, I dont make myself immediately available when he wants to see me weeks after the last time. Am I the jerk here?

Answer 1

No you're not.As a matter of fact,you're the victim. The other person is the one who creates this incident.The other one is responsible for the big mess.Don't feel bad,because you're not the bad guy of the movie.Period.