my grandma's husband, so like my step grandpa (whom iv known since i was lil so he is basicly my grandpa) had to go in today and get open heart surgery. they dont know if he is goin to make it or not. i dont feel that sad. i mean, i know i should cause my grandpa might by dying. iv always had a good relationship with him and everything, he is a really good man and all i can think about is now my grandma can move back to ohio since she wont need to live in florida anymore (he needs speacial treatment only in florida). i feel selfish. is this normal?
2007-05-03 14:08:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Everyone deals with death or dying in their own way. Just because you're not sad, doesn't mean you don't care.
2007-05-03 14:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by jz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone feels differently about these issues. My Uncle who I loved so much passed away last year, but I wasn't sad and I asked the same thing. My brother told me I wasn't sad because I new he was in a much better place and that I know I will see him again. And It's ok to want to be able to see your grandmother, you love her!
2007-05-03 21:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you are still in shock that you could lose your GP. My prayers are with you and your family. Think positive.
2007-05-03 21:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should be sad
that's AWFUL that u aren't!
2007-05-03 21:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by BRIT™ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i were u then i would for sure go!!!
2007-05-03 21:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by hey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋