Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

Is it just me, but when you listen to a sappy love song, does it make you want love that much more, and miss the person youre with even more.. Even if you're not that INTO the person.. Or is the feeling for that person already there, and teh love songs bring the feelings to the surface ?

2007-05-03 22:07:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there really people around who have NO feelings, emotions, or passions at all? Or are people who appear to be like that just running away from something?

2007-05-03 22:06:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a pint or two?
or maybe a nice bloke or two?
Well I do have 3 nights to party.

2007-05-03 22:04:56 · 11 answers · asked by Toogsie 4 in Friends

Brookholm bed and breakfast in ayr ive been on google but havent found any pictures, me amd my bf are staying there tommorrow night just wanted to see what it looked like.

2007-05-03 21:55:45 · 6 answers · asked by suzy 3 in Friends

what happened to ...to love and to obey till death do us part.
why cant women just allow a man make all the decison
who brought this Idea that a man and a woman are in parnership

2007-05-03 21:46:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel that I have a higher sexual drive than my husband and that I am always the one asking him for sex. When I propose the idea, he always shuts it down. We use to be at "it" every other day before we got married and it was great fun and I miss that but now it's not the case. Don't misunderstand me- we don't have a fixed routine as to when and where we should "do it" but even when it happens spontaneously, he claims to not be in the mood. How do I get him to change his mind and "throw caution to the wind" again?

2007-05-03 21:41:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is an irresponsible baby daddy

2007-05-03 21:36:14 · 11 answers · asked by titia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have decided to be alone for a long time without friends.
I want to pamper myself and do alot of things alone, like going for a shopping, going to a movie, having a dinner outside, going for a drive and having ice cream alone and sitting in a nice lovely sorrundings like a park or somewhere for sometime all alone listening to some nice songs.
Only thing is that I dont have confidence, I am scared what if I meet some bad boys when I go to see a movie or be alone in the park. How do I take their comments? How do I behave when they say something bad.
Please tell me what should I do?
Can u guys tell me what comments do u pass when u see a girl all alone? Do u think I should do all these things or not?

2007-05-03 21:35:01 · 28 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 20:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by greeneyedflavor 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 20:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by cheery 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Confused...

I love him, he know's it.
Recently he told me he needed space. I was in shock, but I'm dealing with it even though it hurts.
But I respect his wishes and gave him his "space".

Dilemma:
1)He calls me everyday and expresses how much he misses me.

2). He text's me every morning "Goodmorning Sweetie"

3). Tell's me how much he still loves me, but he needs to be to himself for awhile. The long distance was too much for him.

Does anyone else find this incredibly selfish. First you drop me (still a little traumatized), then you constantly give me a sense of false hope for the relationship.

Is he doing this to keep me wrapped around his finger while he get's to do whatever he want's to do? Or is he...man, i don't even know...

what do you think?

2007-05-03 20:49:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-03 20:47:19 · 7 answers · asked by greeneyedflavor 2 in Singles & Dating

faker. It wasn't even an official date, something he suggested on the fly, to which I replied "I don't know, let me see what I have to do that day".

I'm a very busy person, with alot on my plate. Well, it turns out that some things did came up, so two days prior I cancelled.

I was willing to reschedule, but then he calls me a "fake ****"

I don't know why he's acting like this. It's only been one date.

What kind of person acts like that?

2007-05-03 20:43:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been three whole months..

2007-05-03 20:43:12 · 17 answers · asked by greeneyedflavor 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 20:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have always believed that if you have something nice to say you should say it. So if I see a REALLY good looking guy I will tell him so. "I think you are really good-looking." I am a fat, middle-aged woman in a really happy relationship so I am NOT flirting, I am simply paying a compliment. I'm pleased when the guy takes it well, but sometimes he gets embarrassed and then I feel bad!

So, should I continue giving out compliments?

2007-05-03 20:34:36 · 21 answers · asked by luvrats 7 in Singles & Dating

really wanna go to die. My life so mess up, what can I do? If I am die that would be better. Fuxk all thinks that around me.

2007-05-03 20:34:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have no specific restrictions..........

2007-05-03 20:31:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Within the past year we’ve been communicating less and less. Lately, she's made so many new friends and is involved in so many activities that there’s really no time left for me.

I really miss the bond we had as kids, going swimming & having adventures... Even up until about a year and a half ago things were great. We would hang out almost every day, talk online for hours, etc. We always had something to talk or laugh about... yet now she seems like a stanger. When I'm with her things are just so different.

I guess we've just grown apart? It really hurts to think that we might not be friends for much longer. I’m at a complete loss at what to. Last night I found an old game we used to play and it brought me to tears and then this morning I began crying again because I suddenly felt so guilty, like I caused this because I wasn't always the friend I should have been.

I just wish I could have just one more chance. Please, if anyone can give me advise I'd be so thankful!

2007-05-03 20:30:04 · 8 answers · asked by rainbow_river_rock 1 in Friends

2007-05-03 20:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Could you please explain this song: I didnt understand it fully..Thank you so much...

See my days are cold without you, but hurting while with you
and though my heart can't take no more I keep on running back to you
See my days are cold without you, but hurting while with you
and though my heart can't take no more I keep on running back to you


Baby I dont know why you treatin me so bad (treat me so bad)
you sed you love no one above me
and i was all you had.
and now my heart is beatin for you
I cant stop cryin
and i dont know how I allowed you to treat me this way
and still I stay

Baby I dont know why you wanna do me wrong (do me wrong)
see when I'm home, I'm all alone
and you are always gone
and boy you know i really love you
I cant deny
I cant see how you could bring me to so many tears after all these years

Oo I just need you
so sad
what love could make you do
all the things dat we accept
be the things dat we regret
so all of my ladies

See my days are cold without you, but hurting while with you
and though my heart can't take no more I keep on running back to you
See my days are cold without you, but hurting while with you
and though my heart can't take no more I keep on running back to you

Baby why you hurt me, leave me and dessert me
boy i gave you all my heart and all you do is tear it up
lookin out my window, knowin that I should go
hate it when I pack bags see something always hold me back

2007-05-03 20:21:35 · 3 answers · asked by Stacy 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 3 months but we've been best friends for a year. I am a virgin and I want to wait for the guy I know I am going to marry. He isn't a virgin but he told me that he wants to wait for me. We are always kissing and hugging and he gets "excited" if we just kiss. Is this normal?? I feel bad if he can't get any relief, but he has never pressured me or anything. But is that normal for him to always get excited, even from a simple kiss or hug? Are all guys like this??

2007-05-03 20:16:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u let them noe...n wat if they dnt do it bak if u take tha 1st move ???

2007-05-03 20:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by -xx-oo000fT-xx- 2 in Singles & Dating

May have family out there still.Went to school up in Kurseong.Looking to "friend" with Indian/Anglo Indian Lady.Thanks

2007-05-03 20:15:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I went to dinner with a girl for the first time recently, who told me she just got out of a 5 year relationship with a guy (it ended it Jan.). She told me how crappy he treated her and how bad of a boyfriend he was. Beyond this, I really enjoyed our conversations and thought she was great, so a week later, we meet up again at a nice lounge (we live in Vegas!) for a drink. As I am driving there, I see her outside her car looking distraught. As I drive up, she leans on the passenger window and says, "OMG, my X is on your left and he just banged on my car window....can I please speak with him for 15 minutes..." (Her reasoning being that they never spoke about being broke up since when it did happen in January, her phone died and they have since spoken to eachother.) In the mean time, I drive to another club to meet with my friends, but she never calls me back. She called the next morning to apologize her brains out and how stupid her decision not to call me back was. What do I do?

2007-05-03 20:13:30 · 11 answers · asked by runnin_rebel07 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it going to feel this hard the whole time that he is gone? I thought that I would get a routine, but I'm still waiting for that to happen.

He's only been gone a month. We have at least5 more months to go.
He was horrible before he left. It was like he hated me and my kids. We fought constintaly. Sometimes I feel like I don't want him to come home, but in my heart, I miss him so much.
I feel like giving up, like giving up this house, giving up this relationship. I really don't want to, but him being gone, and me not being able to get any control over the kids, I just want to through my arms up and say "TAKE IT ALL!!!".
I've emailed him when I have had a bad day and all he does is get angry at me. He told me to "get your **** together or I'll erase every email I get from you".
I gave up everything to be with him.
I love him so much, but don't know how to deal with this? How do I make things right?How do I not have bad days?
How do I feel his love like I use to?

2007-05-03 20:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by dolfinlover4321 1 in Singles & Dating

I am naveen from india, my wife want to rejoin again in to my life after one year, she went away from home twice leaving me alone with child, she tryed to divorce me and now she chatting with me and telling that she will meet me and again we will be rejoined, what should i do now. i am intrested to take her, because of my child feature and nothing else, i always belive her but she only do like this. please suggest me.

2007-05-03 20:08:00 · 9 answers · asked by Naveen_oucity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

dont cast stones at a glass house? can someone explain it..pretty bad i dont get it, but is the glass house thing i dont get...

2007-05-03 20:07:12 · 13 answers · asked by flowerlegz 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife of 7 years has a serious anger problem. she's always bitter. she has kids from a previous marriage as do i. i take care of all her kids and mine as well. but she's always pissed off. i've never cheated on her, and i try to give her all that she desires including moral support and affection. i've been nothing but good to her, but she always finds a reason to be angry. one thing in her defense, we usually have very good sex. but she never stays happy for long. we travel extensively (always planned by her and financed by me). the last straw came when i was planning a trip to see a male relative of mine who's like a brother to me. he lives in another state. this would've been the first time i ever travelled w/out her. well, long story short, the night before my flight she packed all my stuff and put it on the curb. i took my stuff and went home ( we both own homes). i went on my trip and had a great time. didn't even miss her. should i return or stay out?

2007-05-03 20:03:08 · 24 answers · asked by silvestre c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So me and my BF have been together for 9 months. What are the possibilities of us staying together? We always talk about it now, I mean us being together forever. I really love him..and he says he "More than loves me" but, I just wanted to know if any guys around this age said anything like that and ended up not being with that person forever. I believe him..because he seems really serious about it (even though hes a typical skater and class clown). I just wanted to have an opinion on how our relationship is and if any guys have ever said something like this to a girl when he was around the age of 16. (oh and by the way...we havent had sex or anything. we talked about it but he came out saying that he loves me for "who I am and not sex")

2007-05-03 20:02:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships