Rejoining my wife after 1 year, she went away with another person leaving me alone with child of 2 years?

Question

I am naveen from india, my wife want to rejoin again in to my life after one year, she went away from home twice leaving me alone with child, she tryed to divorce me and now she chatting with me and telling that she will meet me and again we will be rejoined, what should i do now. i am intrested to take her, because of my child feature and nothing else, i always belive her but she only do like this. please suggest me.

Answer 1

Cheating spouse will always remain same even he/she promise not to repeat the mistake, as you self say she did it two times. I agree with Liz who in one word told you what your wife thinks about you. But still if you want to keep her back it’s entirely your decision, at your risk keep her with a last warning to her. One more legal suggestion get ready a complete petition with her affidavit for divorce on mutual consent, undated, but signed by her with you, in case she repeats put the date & file this petition in the court. This will solve your problem for ever.

Answer 2

Ok, she left you and you child once , and then tryed to divorce you, Dont let her do it again, obviously her situation with the person that she left you for didnt work out and now she wants someone to support her, and the easy target is you.... a good mother would never leave her child, so dont take her back you dont want your child to grow up thinking that its ok to do the things that its mother has done,your wife is not a good role model for your child, its sound like that you are doing a good job raising your child by yourself, dont let her back in your life so she can hurt you and your child again, because as soon as a better offer comes along she will leave you and you will have to pick up the peices again, find a woman that is going to love you for you, and that will love your child like there own, i would divorce your wife and move on my friend.....Good Luck

Answer 3

My friend, go on with your life and forget about getting back again. She is in troubles and knowing that you could be a place for her NOW, she will do and say anything. A simple test will prove the point. Meet her in a motel for few times and make love to her, like she is a person you've just met. couple of months down the road, tell her that you are involved with a woman you are really interested.

If she try to win you and your child, she is sincere, if she explode and rush away, she id fake.

Answer 4

Honestly, Naveen, I think that even if you and your wife reconcile you would only have to look forward to her actually staying only for as long as it takes for her to find someone else to run off with. You are your own boss, and you can do as you wish, but, if I were you, I wouldn't bother letting her come back.

She ran out on you once, and will in all likelihood again. If you don't mind that happening, then do as you wish, but be prepared for the fact that it will most likely happen again, especially if she thinks you will take her back every time.

Answer 5

You can always give it a try. Perhaps let her move back in but tell her it's only a "trial" and see how things go. If there's no improvement and you see she has not changed, then I think it would be wise to let her go for good. If you divorce each other, you can work out a visitation schedule so she can still be involved in your child's life. Best of luck.

Answer 6

All depends on you. Are you mature enough to handle the stressors of 2 small children? Are you financially able to support the entire family? Do YOU really want another child? Don't just do it because you don't want your current child to feel lonely. Make sure you have all the resources needed & the right reasons for having another and make your decision from there. Good luck!

Answer 7

Dear,

I really appreciate you decision to rejoin your wife.It is really difficult and challenging to many of us to do this.I also advise you to take her back.It is also good for the child.But I wish if you could do something like knowing what was the cause to make her leave you twice.Do you take care of her?Do you give her love?Do you give her enough time?Are you honest for her?Do you go out with other women?Do you satisfy your partner in your private matter?Please,answer these questions for yourself and try to improve something wrong from your side.Also talk frankly that what is the cause to spoil your partnership.This will help you to rebuild your relationship.

Let God helps you.

Answer 8

Your English is pretty good. I'm sure you know the word "doormat". Need I explain further?

Answer 9

if you don't love her anymore don't take her back.......besides........the chances of her leaving you again is 999,999 out of 1,000,000..........for your child's sake.......allow her to visit your child at least twice or thrice a week....after all, she is the mother of your child.......for sure....when your child grows a little older he'll/she'll ask you....."daddy.....where's mommy???" or "dad....what happened between you and mom?"............just tell your child....."mom and dad just want to be friends now....don't worry....she visits you a lot right???? she loves you very much....it's just that we just want to be friends now...." bla bla bla.......