My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 3 months but we've been best friends for a year. I am a virgin and I want to wait for the guy I know I am going to marry. He isn't a virgin but he told me that he wants to wait for me. We are always kissing and hugging and he gets "excited" if we just kiss. Is this normal?? I feel bad if he can't get any relief, but he has never pressured me or anything. But is that normal for him to always get excited, even from a simple kiss or hug? Are all guys like this??
2007-05-03 20:16:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS. I'm 20 and he's 24.
2007-05-03 20:17:15 · update #1
All guys are like this if they are attracted to the person they're with. I've been with my fiance for almost four years, (i'm 22 he's 29) and it still happens sometimes. Don't let it scare you, take it as a compliment.
2007-05-03 20:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by rikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal for a man to get sexually aroused when he is with a girl. He is being a gentleman by not putting any pressure on you. You say you feel bad he is not getting any relief. Think about it, there are many ways to give a man sexual relief without having full intercourse. You could give him Oral or Hand relief and I'm sure he would be very grateful.
If you really have deep feelings for him talk to him and ask what he would like you to do.
You might find that you will enjoy it as well.
Good luck.
2007-05-03 20:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is very normal and if you think about it, you wouldn't want it any other way...
Take it as a compliment that he gets excited and wants you. As far as the relief goes, just do what you are comfortable doing with him.
2007-05-03 20:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by ridelightoff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all guys..most ha ha. Untill he's about 99 or dead it will happen ,although after 20 or so a bit slower! ha ha If it's been awhile it's normal. It don't matter if he's a virgin or not, it happens.Trust me if you two "wait till you get married" it will still happen. Been with my wife for ten years and she still "does it" to me....and I'm 36! Just slower now ha haha
2007-05-03 20:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and I think he is completely cheater because the kissing is the first step towards his objective of waiting for you .He hasn't pressured on you, and he is himself not a virgin either. So, i don't think you will ever feel comfortable in developing a relationship with him.You are youself telling us taht you feel bad by his EXCITMENT, It 's boys nature to be excited about kissing .But in your case if you are feeling bad, then it's not really a sign of deveopling a good realtionship.You feel bad you can't get relief because there is a sensitive side in your heart forhim . you have incidently loved him which force you to kiss and think about him , about his behaviour. But a boy 's nature is full of betrayel- all guys.
2007-05-03 20:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by MEENAKSHI KALA 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Normal.
2007-05-03 20:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be concerned if he did NOT get excited. We males are different from you ladies. It is in our nature to multiply; it's hardwired in our brains. The fact that he is in control is a quality you should admire in him. In his "excitment" you know that: A) He is not gay and B) He desires YOU.
Simple answer: Yes, this is a completely, normally functioning male.
2007-05-03 20:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Zoltar Knows All 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.... I think it is not normal..... When a man gets excited with a kissing and hugging, he naturally proceeds further with foreplay. If you do not object at foreplay, it proceeds to undressing and finally, the sexual act. Depending upon your response, the sexual act would be wild or mild.......
2007-05-03 20:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by ashok k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about all of the guys; but I am 51 and it still works for me. At 24 I wouldn't make him wait to long that is if you really want to keep him.
2007-05-03 20:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
convince him to wait untill marriage .its a natural thing 2 b excited after kissing n hugging.u hv not 2 worry about it.if he ll b in true luv with u then he ll certainly wait 4 the right time 2 come
2007-05-03 20:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by binderjeet 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋