Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

I got back with an ex boyfriend (P) 4 months ago. We were together for 3 years and then broke up for 3 years, it was my decision as I met someone else and fell in love. It was an extremely tough time and in the end things didn't work out with the other guy, again I broke it off. Over the last few years P I have stayed good friends and we both recently moved back from overseas to our home country. When I got back here we ended up hanging out and decided to give things another go. I moved in with him pretty quickly and things were going ok for the first few weeks. He's the loveliest guy, completely loyal, loving, sweet, treats me so well and we're best friends. Problem is, I don't really feel physically attracted to him now. I don't know whether to leave him or try to work things out, is this something I should live with as everything else about him is so good? Is that just what happens to everyone after a while or would I be happier with someone else?
Thanks for your help

2007-05-03 20:00:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

need some advise . If you looked after your great grandmother with no financial or emotional support from other family members (they dont even visit only when invited to kids or her birthday) and you find out that the other family members got a copy of her will from the banks without her knowing and telling everyone that " we are getting everything" and trying to force her to change the will what will you do as it was her own choice. The grandson that got a copy hasnt seen visited or phoned her in almost a year (She does not even know what his second kid looks like) Not even her own daughter in law stood with us when this happend (as her own kids have all passed away) what will you do if something like this happend

2007-05-03 19:59:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so im confused. im not mr. fashion and i cant really tell the difference between a tux and a suit. what do dudes ware to prom a tux or a suit?

2007-05-03 19:55:59 · 5 answers · asked by napkin 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a 20 year old male college student, and I am in a difficult situation.

I am not heterosexual.

Beyond that, I'm clueless.

I have strong romantic feeling for women, but not really any sexual feelings. I don't have really any romantic feelings for guys, but am very strongly sexually attracted to them.

I have had 2 sexual experiences with guys, and as yet none with any women. I don't think I'll get to have sex any time soon, as I am about as socially awkward as possible, but I am sick of being uncomfortable around friends and family when my love life enters discussions. My as yet apparantly clueless family nags me about getting a girlfriend, but the girls I have romantic feelings for I don't want to have to come out to if I do end up being gay.

What am I, or what should I do to figure it out?

2007-05-03 19:54:22 · 10 answers · asked by buggin 1 in Singles & Dating

This is really annoying... I got Sat & Sun off, some nights I have school, but my bf has to work on Sat & Sun, his day-off would never match mine, we don't live together but we both have strong willing to make up time for each other, what should we do?

2007-05-03 19:53:28 · 7 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering when will I get a good girlfriend who would care about me as no one does??

2007-05-03 19:47:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 19:38:20 · 1 answers · asked by Soft Heart 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married soon. Danny wants for us to move in w/ his friend and that means I would have to go to a new church and I don't want to.Anyhow Danny doesn't know it yet but I'm holding back my wedding plans now b/c of 2 things. 1 They say divorces run in families and if that's the case, Divorces ran to the finish line in mine.I'm trying to protect myself from getting hurt b/c Mama, sister and my cousin have been through divorces.What's going to say that one day Danny won't decide he doesn't want to be married to me anymore and leave me? How am I going to know he won't leave me? The 2nd reason I'm holding back my plans is b/c I have a crush on Ricky and if I could talk to him in his office I could tell him but I won't say it's him I have a crush on. I'll just describe him and see if he can figure it out.I want to know what you think abt this please.

2007-05-03 19:29:15 · 9 answers · asked by Fancy L 2 in Weddings

2007-05-03 19:10:45 · 2 answers · asked by Hasitha R 1 in Friends

Sir

My paternal grand mother made a will of self acquired immovable property in 1987 just before her death to her 3 children(male) , of which my father( suresh) is one of the beneficiary.none to her only daughter(rajamma) who is a divorcee at that time.but "she can look after the property till her death, then after all the beneficiary can take their share as shown in the will".

Now, My father(suresh) died in 1993 and rajamma died in 2004... now we the children are eligible for our father's share of the property... since we don't have healthy relationship with other beneficiaries, we want to know ....

1)whom to approach for the transfer and making of Katha to our name.
2)what are the documents to b produced in support of the claim
3)we are three siblings, am the only son, one elder married sister and an younger unmarried sister.
4) can i transfer it into my name or to my widow mother who live with me.

thank u

vijay kumar

2007-05-03 19:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by e-raj 1 in Family

If you think "hook-ups" are morally wrong, please answer a different question. Mine was getting puked on during the act because either Long Island Tea or the sight of me made her stomach turn.

2007-05-03 18:52:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've googled and got sent here. All silk arrangements don't include bouquets etc, i've seen a few people say they used fake flowers SO WHERE DID YOU GET THEM FROM????

2007-05-03 18:33:30 · 11 answers · asked by kanne53 1 in Weddings

okay, so i like this guy, hes really cute and nice, but ive only talked to him once. and hes not in any of my classes. so, i want to talk to him and i figure that the easiest way to talk to him is to send him a message on myspace. so, how should i start the conversation. i mean i cant ask him for homework. ugg, wut should i do? should i even message him? guys, do you think it would be wierd to get a message from a girl youve talked to once? im not that pretty either. this is me:http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l254/pinkdance4life/poopoo.jpg wut should i do?

2007-05-03 18:28:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married to my husband for 2.5 years, he has been back from Iraq for almost eight months and we are so miserable. Before we got married he had a drug problem which he never told me about, while he was in Iraq he had an "internet affair" with an ex (exchanging nude pics, talking dirty, etc.) he thinks i need to get over both but i'm still really angry. Also we never do anything together, he is very disrespectful, and we have very little in common. He is going home for a vacation without me, and he will be around his ex, needless to say i'm really paranoid about it. Tonight i told him not to come home once he is there. I have been really unhappy in this relationship for a very long time and nothing is making it better. We went to counseling but the counselor and him ganged up on me and it didnt go anywhere. I have been considering suicide a lot lately, not just because of my marriage but life in general, i dont have the energy for it anymore and i want out. any advice?

2007-05-03 18:28:45 · 19 answers · asked by ginnyp82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been searching for information on this for a while now and I just can't find the right facts. What I am trying to find out is: what are the vows like (example if possible), attire, reception (if there is one), symbol of love (trading of rings if so what hand). I have looked at tons of sites on "dutch wedding traditions" and they all say the same thing...couple sits on throne and the guest come up and wish them the best etc. What are modern touches that happen. Is it like the American wedding; groom waits in the front, bride in white, walks down with the father, instrumental procession? Please be as specific as possible. Thanks to anybody that answers.

If you have had a catholic Dutch wedding just summarize what happened at your wedding; if you don't mind. thanks

2007-05-03 18:28:39 · 5 answers · asked by picc0999 2 in Weddings

everyone advises that i break up with her but i just CAN"T(i realize i am being a baby) i feel too bad i don't know what to do. please any advice wil help but please don't suggest cheating on her.

2007-05-03 18:26:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this situation involves my daughter, myself (grandmother) and the father. my daughter and I lives in texas, but the father lives in OK. last year my daughter just found out through dna that his is the father. the child now is 3 years old.

the father is not allowed around children, but i feel that a parents has a right to see their children. what will i tell my granddaughter if she never meets her father.

the father is on probation (not allowed to be along with children). I know he would have to register in a state where ever he is.

I would very much love the father and my granddaughter to see each other, the father does have to be supervised.

2007-05-03 18:25:57 · 2 answers · asked by Donna J 1 in Family

When men look at naked women in mags..do they compare them to their partner, even if their partner is georgous. If so how can we possible live up to that standard?

2007-05-03 18:22:39 · 5 answers · asked by dee o 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to see how many qualities I have that men are looking for. I would like to know as much as possible.

Height, weight, age, hair color, eye color, curly or stairght hair?
Hobbies, personality, schooling, and anything you can think, about that I haven't listed. Thank you for helping.

2007-05-03 18:21:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, we let him stay with us under one condition that he get a job until he leaves for the Army. Everything is great for about a week. He quits his job but doesnt tell us. He leaves in the morning then waits for us to go to work then comes home. Finally, his work calls and asks what the deal is. Well, to make a long story long, we boot him out for free loading. He joined early and leaves for boot camp. Next thing we know he is booted out of boot camp. Well he gets a job at a supercenter until recently when he bailed on that job also. So now its present day. Back in December, the daughters "boy friend" comes out from New York to stay with her and her brother and his girlfriend. This guy is a piece of work boy. Free loads off of them for almost 4 months until they run out of money and now he decides to go back to New York. Tells the daughter that he will come back for her in a week, 2 tops. Well, that was 5 weeks ago. Running out of room again. Part three coming up.

2007-05-03 18:19:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a realtor and met the girl of my dreams. BTW she is my client. She is an educated, family oriented home girl...religious. I'm providing above the call of duty service to her. We exchange emails most of the topic is not real estate related. Recently I asked her out and she politely rejected me, but gave a clear and detailed reason why she couldnt make it. She even sent me a photo of herself while we were chatting. I didn't ask for the photo, but the subject came up as we were talking about her vacation somewhere.

Should I be proactive and stop making lame excuses on why I want to meet her and just ask her out point blank? Does she like me or just being friendly? She doesnt seem to like to talk on the phone as much as emails, but takes 2-3 days to reply. I don't care how busy you are, but no way it takes that long to reply if you are interested in someone.

Please advise!!!

2007-05-03 18:16:57 · 14 answers · asked by Ohio_guy1203 1 in Singles & Dating

i really care about him and he spoils me when he can but i met him during a very very bad break up and even though i didnt want to remain with my ex who didnt treat me right im afraid that ive jumped into something new too soon.Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. also ive never dated a younger man before

2007-05-03 18:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by pissedmahat 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, bare with me folks. Kind of long. I met my wife in 1998, she has 2 kids, one was 12 the other 13. They lived with their dad and my wife paid child support. She gave up the option of having them with her for them to hopefully have a better life. Their dad lived in an upscale small town and she lived in a crime infested city. Well, the father played on the kids emotions telling them their mom gave them up because she didnt want them. His parents also played the game. SO my wife has had to put up with the heart breaking burden of giving everything, them taking and leaving her holding the pot for 20 some odd years. They are super nice to her when they want something then jerks after they get it. Well, in 2003, the boy was going to go into the military. A few months before he left his father booted him out of the house for being disrespectful and not obeying the rules of the house hold(a little bit of reap what you sew). running out of letters, will post as another question

2007-05-03 18:09:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK the story starts like this..10 years ago my ex and i moved in together. It has been an on again, off again relationship, but he is a great guy. I love him and he says that he loves me. He is there for me financially if i need him. He is wonderful with my kids, we don't have any together, but he is always there for them. So what is the problem then....well he does not work and likes to..well you know... street hustle. I have since gave my life to the Lord and wanting to live a Christan life. About 3 months ago he told me that he is ready to come home and I told him no. I told him that i want him to get a job and better himself. Well since then he has moved in with another chick but swears that there is nothing going on between them.
I told him that I do not like it but he is like..you told me that you didn't want me to move back in with you. Now i want him to move out of this chicks house but i am not sure if i want him to move back in with me. At least not unless we r married.

2007-05-03 18:00:34 · 12 answers · asked by Ga's Peach 2 in Singles & Dating

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