i really care about him and he spoils me when he can but i met him during a very very bad break up and even though i didnt want to remain with my ex who didnt treat me right im afraid that ive jumped into something new too soon.Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. also ive never dated a younger man before
2007-05-03 18:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by pissedmahat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you know? All men are immature ! No matter what age they are ! That's something we all have to live with if we want a man around ! Have 2 new friends, both are almost 10 yrs older, my stepdad was 9 yrs. younger. Women live 5 yrs. longer so you're together longer. You may be addicted to bad treatment--get over it !!! Try this awhile, accept the spoiling even if you think you don't deserve it. Let your self esteem swell ! You probably feel out of place with him because you may not have the same memories. Remember who Ashton Kurcher's wife is? 15 yrs. Burt Reynolds left Dinah Shore in hopes of having a 'baby'.Ended with Loni Anderson who still was too 'old' and adopted a boy. He said leaving Dinah was a terrible mistake. NEW isn't bad, try it, you'll like it!!!
2007-05-03 18:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by F C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. If you two like each other whats the big deal if he is younger? As for the maturity issue... Don't you remember your mom telling you that girls always mature faster than boys? Its the same when they are older too. LOL! You possibly could have waited a little longer to start a new relationship but only you can be the judge of your feelings and wether you were ready or not. The same thing happened to me and now I am with the most wonderful man I have ever met in my life. I'm not kidding either! But he is older than me. Relax and just let things take their natural course.
2007-05-03 18:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by angiee631 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time & enjoy being with this man, things may work out or not, you will never know if you don't give him and the relationship a chance. I have been happily married for 15 years to a man 10 years younger than me. It can work! Don't worry about him being immature, most men are - at any age. Good luck
2007-05-03 18:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you told us how old he is then five years really is not to to far away. no maby 30 years difference would be really awkard...but back to your question. Listen to what your heart is telling you. If you really love this newer guy then stay with him just dont let your relationship move to fast. Take it at a slow pace so you can be comfortable with this new relationship. You might want to talk about your new boyfriend about this. Telling him how you feel can help him find a way to make you feel better. But remember to not move to fast and you will be fine. Best of luck
2007-05-03 18:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Vince F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to take him seriously, you're going to have to stop viewing him as five years younger and see him as an equal or you will always feel that he just isn't right for you. What's five years in the long run anyway?
2007-05-03 18:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not settle with the best. But on the other can turn you off.
2007-05-03 18:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as he's yopunger his maturity wand expectations will be different from yours
give him some time to meet with yours
2007-05-03 18:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋