Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

So I have had this crush on this guy for a really long time. Only problem is I was 15 at the time and am now almost 21. Grew up alot too. Let me tell you. I developed a crush on this guy. way back in the day. Lately we have been smiling, waving, when I speak he kinda laughs. And fidgets abit. Yesterday I was in town and passed him. I thought you know what. What would it hurt to offer him a ride to work. Since where he lives to work is about a 4 mile walk. He accepted and started a conversation. Omg this man is adorable. I am shy and he did really well making me feel comfortable. He thanked me like 3 times for the ride. Had a really cute smile on him. And his eyes sparkled. Beautiful eyes I might add. I fell all over again. I was falling before and now I fell harder. It's getting annoying. lol. I dont know what to do from here. Continue talking to him when I see him. Since the ice is now broken. And kinda wait and see what he does. Or just what. Suggestions please. Advice?

2007-05-03 17:41:29 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over a year now. I started to be sexually active since 18 years old and had high sex drive since. I had several sex partners before my marriage.
Problem is I think my sex drive is still high, but not towards my husband.
Although he have to goods and stamina, but he does not really give me pleasure. Sometimes it's painful and after each session, I'm usually sore and slightly torn below as his penis is thick and long. He does a lot of foreplay but unfortunately it does not really arouse me. I only give in because it's a husband's right to demand sex. I can't achieve orgasm even with Oral. I hate to advise him much because I'm afraid it'll hurt his ego that his skills is poor. And I avoid telling him of my past experiences. His foreplay is unskilled and instead of making me feel aroused at my sensitive "areas" It tickles and soon after, it becomes numb. I tried subtle hints not to concentrate in one area too long but he does not get the hint. What can I do?

2007-05-03 17:41:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i go resize it what do they do to my ring is the value the same and will it look the same help i need details

2007-05-03 17:40:15 · 17 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Weddings

2007-05-03 17:36:23 · 7 answers · asked by fanlanman 1 in Weddings

I'm just too...unrefined.I want a girl that I can be honest with and not have to filter what I say with.Of course It doesn't help that I swear an enormous amount, and am brutally honest.(if a dress makes you look fat I'm gonna tell you that).Am I hopeless?Destined for loneliness?

2007-05-03 17:35:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 17:30:56 · 11 answers · asked by icareboutyu 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-03 17:24:29 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this is not advisable, but why should both go on being unhappy when there's a chance they could do something about it?

2007-05-03 17:10:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend but I flirt with a guy online.... is this cheating?

2007-05-03 17:00:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a newly wed of 4 months though my husband and I have been together for nearly 5 years....in that 5 years 80% of the time we go out it is typically me, my husband and his best friend...it used to never really bother me, but it seems that now that we are married my husband wants to spend even more time with him. I work 1st shift he works 3rd..with his best friend...he comes over to our house in the am and they watch movies and when the weekend comes, plans have already been made to go out..all three of us! They have even talked about buying a duplex. I love my husband and I like his friend, but when ever I say something to my hub about his bud or me being a 3rd wheel he always makes me feel guilty by saying..."he doesn't have any family" "I'm his only real good friend" He doesn't have a girl friend" this guy has not had a gf in the 5 years that I have been with my hub..not even been on a date!! I dont think I would be this angry if he had a gf that I could hang with. HELP ME!!

2007-05-03 16:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Dedoe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-03 16:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by Phyllis C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love with a man from 1/2 way across the country and I don't know what to do.
He could give me a nice life, minus my kids for the most time.
He is everything I have ever wanted.
My soul mate.
DO i run, and break some hearts, or stay, and keep all around me happy, and me not happy.
I want to be free to fly to him.
I want to see what life would be like with him.
What do you thinK?

2007-05-03 16:55:10 · 14 answers · asked by itmdjp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I finally found the courage to write a letter to a guy whom I’ve been deeply in love with for almost 3 years now....For 3 years I have not told him my feelings....I got tired of holding everything inside and thought I owed him that much to tell him how much I yearn for him..
He and I use to talk often, but because of some misunderstandings we have not spoken for quite a while, and I reunited with him by sending a love letter full of passion for him.

3 weeks has gone and he still haven't replied to my letter (I left my phone numbers in the letter and I sent letter by FedEx so I know he got it for sure) ....How long should I wait before I expect to get a response, or do you think he will never reply because of a 3 week time span? Should I give him time to think?...Or You think he is not interested..

We are separate countries at the moment, because I recently moved away for studies...I don’t got he’s cell phone number now- just his work number and his work address- which I got through a friend of his and mine. His number changed after he went back to his home country for 9 months then relocated. Do you think it was a bad idea that I wrote a letter confessing my love for him? Or do you think it was the wrong thing to do?

Do you think I should call him and ask him if he got the letter? Or should I wait a bit longer -or should I just move on?

2007-05-03 16:50:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is the story, the husband is out of town for 3 weeks at a time (sometimes more), when he comes home it is only Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. He knows that you have needs, and wants you to be happy, so he tells you that as long as he (the hubby) comes first, and that it is just sex (with the other guy), go ahead and have fun the husband will not get mad, and the husband is not having sex with another woman. Would you have sex with another man? By the way this is the husband asking.

2007-05-03 16:48:32 · 39 answers · asked by stress 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I get paid by weekly, my wife works for tips( SO SHE HAS CASH DAILY), we make a good living together. I hand her my whole check , she buys me cigs, cologne , fills my car with gas, pays the bills, get the kids what they need,everything I need, but I cannot get her to understand how it feels to walk around without even 5 bucks in your pocket, any advice? And don't get me wrong I appreciate everything she does.

2007-05-03 16:47:13 · 15 answers · asked by no cigarette money 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Forgive me for asking such a silly question, but i don't have too many "normal" relationships in my life to compare this to.

i am dating someone and we see a lot of each other. sometimes we get along soooo well and the sparks are flying. sometimes, it's just like two platonic people hanging out and just talking about stuff and there is absolutely no chemistry. it's about 50/50.

is this normal in a really great relationship with someone who is like a soulmate ("the one" for you) or someone you are meant to be together with forever????

thanks so much!

2007-05-03 16:45:44 · 1 answers · asked by smileygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Based on this AIM conversation, you think she is interested in me?
Guy :hey, is the section on catalyst on the chem prelim

Guy: heey

Girl:i don't thinkk soo

Girl:im going to 008 chem

Girl:and going to study at library

Girl:sooo if you want to studyy and u happen to be in central give me a call

Girl:=)

Guy:sure, i'm goin to head to the library soon

Guy: i'll give u a call if i'm in central

Girl:=)okie dokiee oh gosh

Girl:ll bring snacks

Girl:and we can study!

Girl:haha

Guy:lol ok

Thanks for your advice.

2007-05-03 16:45:22 · 7 answers · asked by john23213 1 in Singles & Dating

We Met At Work And He Approached Me, We Been Friends For Like A Year And A Half Then We Crossed That Line And Now We Are Sexually Involved.. He Has A Daughter That Is 6yrs Old And No Ties To The Mother, He Says He Really Cares About Me And Has Been There For Me Through Out All The Rough Times, For Christmas He Baught Me A Gold Necklace With His First Initial On It And We Been Really Cool All The While.. I Really Like Him And Wouldn't Mind Being His Girlfriend But There Are Times When I Feel Like He Dosen't Feel The Same Way I Do..

2007-05-03 16:42:41 · 19 answers · asked by misslee 5 in Singles & Dating

We have all the other music, but are having trouble coming up with a good bit of music for the recessional. There's a few things: We're having a live pianist and violinst, so it has to be played by those instruments (ie- no trumpets); and it's in a church, where it has to be either gospel or classical. Any thoughts?

2007-05-03 16:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by newfcollins 2 in Weddings

My husband works 20 hrs a week and doesn't help pay any bills. He uses his money on basically whatever he wants. I've yelled and screamed and cried to him about how unfair this is. I've never had to worry about bills before and now I'm just at a loss. We've only been married for 2 months and I'm about ready to throw him out. I love him very much and am IN love with him. I truly care about him and know that he really doesn't have any where to go and with the job he has he doesn't have many options. He's been really distant lately and mean at times too. He's really changed and I'm not sure that I want this anymore. Please someone tell me, what would YOU do?

2007-05-03 16:41:44 · 21 answers · asked by pcchocoholic 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he accually tells me the truth (or at least i think he is) but in a very sarcastic way so that i can never tell when hes lying. like i would ask him "are you cheating on me right now?" he would say yes! with at least 20 women. and i can never tell if hes lying or not even when hes telling the truth. i told him that i was onto him about that but that just makes him do it more. i dont understand how someone can love another person and intentualy confuse them like this

2007-05-03 16:38:51 · 14 answers · asked by ~testube Jebus~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently become disabled through an accident. Now I qualify for Social Security checks. So, I have had to move back in with my mom (I am 21). I never knew my father. In order for me to get the maximum $ ammount / month (like 516.00 $) I will have to claim dependence on my dad. I never met the man, I never talked with him, he never paid ANY child support. He won't loose any of his pension, so it isn't like I am taking cash away from him (even though he owes my mother thousands of $).
Here is my delemia - in August an attorney will be sending him a letter informing him of my claim of dependance. It is really a formality, but suddenly he'll be in my life! He will have my name (I changed my last name), my phone number and address. He wasn't a nice man to my mom. Tat is why she left while pregnant. I don't know how to act! I am trying not to be hopeful that he has changed into a nice guy, and I am trying not to be afraid that he will be creul - I just don't know how to deal w/ this

2007-05-03 16:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

IF YOU HAD A MAN THAT RESPECTS YOU AND LOVES YOU THE WAY YOU ARE. AND TELLS YOU EVERYDAY HE LOVES YOU. WOULD YOU UP AND LEAVE HIM BECAUSE HE IS TOO NICE OR WOULD YOU STICK BY HIS SIDE NO MATTER WHAT ?

2007-05-03 16:32:55 · 13 answers · asked by david_willams2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-05-03 16:26:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He wants to buy me DD implants. He has told me he bought them for his last girlfriend and that she loved them.

I'm a B cup right now, surgery seems drastic- not to mention going that big. I thought he liked how I am. I don't know why he wants to change me. All guys must be chest obsessed. Any advice?

2007-05-03 16:22:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are so totaly in love but some days when he get home from school his mom tells him that hes gonna end up in da streets and stuff like dat! Do u think he has those problems because of me? PLEASE HELP

2007-05-03 16:20:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She cheated on me three times that I know of. Once while she lived with me. She also got pregnant while we where trying to get back together and had an abortion. Afterward she told me that it might not have been mine because she was having unprotected sex with someone else too.

2007-05-03 16:17:17 · 27 answers · asked by Consumed 1 in Singles & Dating

okay...im totally head over heels in love with my boyfriend. He is amazing to me. and hes the only guy that i want to be with and have in my life. but theres this one kid that i talk to...and hes always says that he loves me and crap...and hes like 3 or 4 years older then me...I want to tell him that im not into him like that [cuz i used to have a crush on him way before i had my boyfriend and i told him i liked him and he liked me back] but i dont like him anymore..but i dont want to hurt him or seem like a ******...what do i do?? help me please =/

2007-05-03 16:13:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here's the skinny....I have a great boyfriend. I mean GREAT. We've been together just over two years, he's smart, employed, funny, fun to be with, HONEST, LOYAL and totally hot. His ex-wife, on the other hand, is a psycho! She hates him, and thus me (it's the company you keep??), and makes it miserable whenever there is a kids event (the dude has two kids). To put it plainly, she's FOUL - overweight, miserable, unhappy - and as they say - misery loves company!! Any ideas on how to disengage from the drama???? Sometimes I can make it work short term, but eventually I get irritated....and that's being politically correct with word choice :-)

2007-05-03 16:12:29 · 6 answers · asked by NotDoneYet 1 in Singles & Dating

i heard once by one of you ladys on hea that one way she realized she was pregnant was when her boyfriend had sex with her and told her her vagina was warmer then it usually is.......i thought that was a bit odd i didnt kno there was a difference but tonight my boyfriend said the same thing to me and omg does this mean im pregnant????? whats sum girls appinions....

2007-05-03 16:10:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating