He wants to buy me DD implants. He has told me he bought them for his last girlfriend and that she loved them.
I'm a B cup right now, surgery seems drastic- not to mention going that big. I thought he liked how I am. I don't know why he wants to change me. All guys must be chest obsessed. Any advice?
2007-05-03 16:22:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let anyone talk you into elective surgery. There are risks to every procedure.
Breast enhancement should be a woman's preference/choice/decision. If you never saw this guy again, would you want them? Also, DD is very big [ Anna Nicole size, and she was 5'11" with a large frame.]
If he wants you to just talk to the surgeon, say "why don't we ask him how big he can make your **** while we're at it?"
2007-05-03 16:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
RUN! Get as far away as you can. If you want Implants, go talk to a doctor, get informed. Then get some prosthetic breasts and wear them for a while. This will give you an idea of how it will look and feel if you get the implants. Then if you still want to altar you're body, pay for it yourself! Have you ever watched the court shows. Picture yourself in front of a few million people claiming "They were a gift!". How embarrassing!
2007-05-03 16:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by raretrueblonde1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what YOU want. If you have even the slightest doubt about getting breast implants, don't even do it.
Your boyfriend is obviously just looking for more eye candy. It seems pretty selfish of him if you ask me. Tell him to grow up and accept who you are and not what you have or should have.
2007-05-03 16:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did you decide you wanted to get them and how long have you thought about it? What makes you think they are too small? I can understand you want his support and if it is really what you want then you should do it, however you should also respect him more for what he thinks about it. Many guys feel the bigger the breast size the better and the fact that he loves you for who you are makes a big statement. It isn't because he doesn’t care for you. It seems his legitimate concern is for you and your health. Ultimately you have to decide whether or not it is what you really want. If it is explain to him why and tell him that he is more than ok to disagree however you would really appreciate him to support your decision, even if he feels it is wrong.
2016-03-18 23:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds crazy. He bought them for his last girlfriend? What happened to her? Get her phone number and have a heart to heart with her. Now do you want DD breasts? Why don't you let him buy you a house or pay for a college degree? Something that will last and not need to be replaced or reduced. Sounds a little crazy if you ask me. Oh, right you did ask me.
Good luck.
2007-05-05 03:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Luch d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no u shouldn't let him buy u breast implants...If he dont like ur B cup then tell him 2 deal wit it or leave...God made u a B cup so dont go and do something dumb...Yes surgery is drastic and it could go totally wrong...
2007-05-03 16:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT get the implants to please him. Not only is it selish of him to want to change your body to make himself happy, but it could also cause you a lot of physical problems. Many women with large breasts end up having moderate to severe back problems.
2007-05-03 16:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by meatball 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
my advice is if u like ur breast the way the r then keep em tht way dont let any1 make u do something u dont want 2.....ok lets say u go along wit it & u end up looking like betty boop then he decides hmm well dd rnt 4 u wht do u do then girl i think we're all made wit the rite proportion so i would say if u want it then do it,dont do it 2 plz any1 but urself
2007-05-03 16:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's rocking the boat and he ought to sit down or the Devil will drag him under by the sharp lapels of his checkered coat. It appears you are not on board and he wants you to be someone else. Tell him no and find out how much he really cares about you.
2007-05-03 16:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll let him buy you bigger boobs if you can buy him a bigger d**k. lol Just kidding. You should only get them if it's what you want to do. Don't let him pressure you into doing something you're not into. So what if his last girlfriend loved them? You ain't her. :)
2007-05-03 16:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋