I'm in love with a man from 1/2 way across the country and I don't know what to do.
He could give me a nice life, minus my kids for the most time.
He is everything I have ever wanted.
My soul mate.
DO i run, and break some hearts, or stay, and keep all around me happy, and me not happy.
I want to be free to fly to him.
I want to see what life would be like with him.
What do you thinK?
2007-05-03 16:55:10 · 14 answers · asked by itmdjp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it sounds too good to be true, then it usually is.
We all make decisions in life ,some of them wise and some of them not, but we all have to face and live with the consequences of our actions someday.
You might not regret it now, but you will never escape your own conscience.
You will have to live with whatever choice you make for the rest of your life.
I think you need to focus on why you are really so unhappy right now to face and accept reality.
Stop using escapism as an excuse not to deal with the real issues in your life.
Your kids need you.
Wake up sleepy-head and join the real world.
2007-05-03 17:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Fai 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If youre not happy in your marriage and want out, thats one thing.... but to leave for a situation ( grass greener on the other side) be VERY CAUTIOUS when making that decision. Your'e probably in a rut, and need a change of pace, but don't make the mistake in thinking this man will be all you need/want.
2007-05-04 00:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what would truly make you happy. As for me, I could never, ever leave my daughter. If there was a choice between my being unhappy but having my daughter or my being happy but not seeing her, I would live unhappily for the rest of my life! What is so wrong with your marriage that you feel you can't be happy there? If I was in your situation I would exhaust all other options before leaving my whole family.
2007-05-04 00:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by 1978girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you asking if it would be OK to leave your children to run cross country to be with a man?
Are you talking about leaving the children with the other parent? If other parent, I believe they would be better off then being with a mother that could even consider leaving their child for a man.
2007-05-04 00:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by hi_stk_n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you decided to have kids you decided to put your wants after them. Don't be so selfish, you can do what you want after they're raised. Kids need thier parents...You'd be making a huge mistake if you did this, and things aren't always the way you play them up in your mind to be - just remember that....
2007-05-04 00:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by speedy1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess. You met him in a chatroom. You're an idiot. Grow up and act like an adult instead of whoring around on the Internet. You have a family and children to look after.
2007-05-03 23:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Minus your kids for the most time.....what the hell does that mean? Please tell me this isn't some internet relationship...
I think you are living in grass is greener land but I might need more details...
2007-05-03 23:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your old enough to be my mother so lemme give you this from my point of view
if i were your son id not only hate you for the rest of my days but id disown you completly if you did some stupid **** like that to me and my father
2007-05-04 00:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'M speechless/dumbfounded on this one. MINUS the kids. what kind of mother are you?
2007-05-04 00:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anthill 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is not always greener on the other side of the fence
2007-05-04 00:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋