okay...im totally head over heels in love with my boyfriend. He is amazing to me. and hes the only guy that i want to be with and have in my life. but theres this one kid that i talk to...and hes always says that he loves me and crap...and hes like 3 or 4 years older then me...I want to tell him that im not into him like that [cuz i used to have a crush on him way before i had my boyfriend and i told him i liked him and he liked me back] but i dont like him anymore..but i dont want to hurt him or seem like a ******...what do i do?? help me please =/
2007-05-03 16:13:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have no feels at all for this kid anymore! but hes telling me that i have his heart and he wants me to move in with him...but he KNOWS i have a boyfriend...and my boyfriend hates him and the kid doesnt trust my boyfriend...all i had on the kid was a CRUSH and he just blows everything up...i want to..and i need to tell him that i dont like him like that....that i just like him as a friend now....nothing more....how do i do it??
2007-05-03 16:22:37 · update #1
Ohhh and just some info...my boyfriend is 18 and i want to spend the rest of my life with him [and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me...he has told me this] im 16 and the other guy is turning 20 years old soon.
2007-05-03 16:29:54 · update #2
"but theres this one kid" KID. You said it best. Wait till you graduate from high school before trying to form any sort of serious relationship. It will save you so much grief.
2007-05-03 16:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just tell him, in a nice way, that when you told him you liked him, and nothing came about from that, that you moved on. You could always try and make him feel a little better and not come off as being rude by telling him that you don't really know what's going to happen with your current BF, (even though you really like him,) and that if for some reason things don't work out with you two that maybe you could see about being with this other guy after that, but that you are really interested in your current BF and want to give it a fair chance and see how things go with him first.
2007-05-03 23:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Aloysia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memorize the first line and a half [ up to 'but...'] and repeat it to him
2007-05-03 23:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just be open with him. i think he will understand. be honest.
2007-05-03 23:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋