Me and my boyfriend are so totaly in love but some days when he get home from school his mom tells him that hes gonna end up in da streets and stuff like dat! Do u think he has those problems because of me? PLEASE HELP
2007-05-03 16:20:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it might help if you stop saying da and dat,.
2007-05-03 16:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have got a friend
he is totally in love with his girl friend
to tell u the truth she is not the best one could ever get
i dont mean she is a bad girl
not at all
the thing is she is not that sort of a person
that will bring ur spirits high
and try to make a better person out of u
so
his mom is always fighting with him
and he always abuse his mom with words
and insult her
but what the girl friend got to see
is his good, loving side
but his mother see him always as a failure
as he dont give much attention to
things that r really important
and as a mother likes to see her son/daughter
one of the best people
she gets frustrated
and tell him same things like ur bf's mothers do
so its normal
i mean
not normal
but it doesnt have to be that u r the reason
however
see where ur bf is weak
and make it better
one day he will always remember that u made a better
person out of him
i am not judging ur bf
but from what u said
he dont know how to keep a steady
and good relation ship with his mother
which is the easiest thing a human can ever do
good luck anyway
2007-05-03 23:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by alexandre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not because of you,however if you really love him you should motivate him to do his best so he wont end up in "da streets and stuff like dat"....
2007-05-03 23:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bumz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mother sounds like a real winner. Tell him that you support him, and encourage him to get an education. Then he can leave home and build a good life for himself, and maybe you too.
2007-05-03 23:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no even my mother in law used to tell that my husband when he was younger now hes 19 n I'm 18 but it doesn't matter like she used to always tell him that because he would fail a test or something but she loves him n he learnt n now he has a good job n hes very smart
2007-05-03 23:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you even think that?? Sounds like he has normal teen aged issues with his mother. Why would she say that?? Well perhaps he is lazy, doesn't study or work has a bad attitude maybe.
2007-05-03 23:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like his mom is thinking very negative against her son. Hopefully he won't believe her and he'll turn out better then she ever expected. I'm sure it's not because of you, but his current actions at home.
2007-05-03 23:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by ASK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily because of you, but more so the fact that she doesn't care for you and he is concentrating more on you than his priorities like work or school etc..
Sounds like she knows you two are sexually active and soon a baby will come
2007-05-03 23:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm... most likely this is true. I mean, I need more elaboration on your part. But parents aren't dumb. He will be on the streets one day.
2007-05-03 23:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by lost.in.love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope unless your keeping him out at all times of the night...but most likely it is hi attitude towards her
2007-05-03 23:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by JESS, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋