Is it normal to have these types of ebbs and flows in a relationship or with your soulmate???

Question

Forgive me for asking such a silly question, but i don't have too many "normal" relationships in my life to compare this to.

i am dating someone and we see a lot of each other. sometimes we get along soooo well and the sparks are flying. sometimes, it's just like two platonic people hanging out and just talking about stuff and there is absolutely no chemistry. it's about 50/50.

is this normal in a really great relationship with someone who is like a soulmate ("the one" for you) or someone you are meant to be together with forever????

thanks so much!

Answer 1

O god please, please don't get yourself confused with romantic notions. So much that just ends in burn. Its magical don't give me wrong this game we call love, but those actions you speck of come along when you have a geniune relationship. Weather he is "the one" depends more on the situation then love. Don't do this to yourself like everyone else does. Love isn't enough, its about if you guys share the basically the same perception, direction, and intentions in life, or else you'll be on here in 20 years talking about how the marriages is failing and what you can do to help the kids. Be smart you've got a heart and a brain, at the very least the relationship shows that both of you can interact in a geniune way with people and love them hopfully for who they are. Or ability to love isn't what makes us special honey, its our ability to love right that does, be careful.....