Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

2007-05-03 15:07:13 · 22 answers · asked by Broken 1 in Singles & Dating

I have my fathers last name and i want to change it back to the first last name i had that was my mothers.
hes not my birth certificate so how is it possible in Australia?

2007-05-03 15:06:51 · 4 answers · asked by boobie_fkn 3 in Family

i always fall for the wrong guy, and I get completely head over heels. now i have finally found the perfect guy and he likes me but all i have is lust for him! what do i do?I really want to be crazy about him

2007-05-03 15:05:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a new girl I just met not too long ago starts calling me "honey," joked around and tells me she "loves" me, always ask me about my weekend or work, joked around about moving in with me as a roomie, and acts giddy around me? It's probably TOO obvious, but I want more info to know what the heck I'm getting myself into. Thanks everyone.

2007-05-03 15:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by Giant Donut 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 15:03:07 · 35 answers · asked by [♥]Cappie[♥] 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2 years. I broke up with my boyfriend because my parents didn't like him. Now I regret it. I love my husband but I feel like I only fell in love with him because I was on rebound from my boyfriend who I loved. I saw him a couple months ago and he said he still loves me and I couldn't smile at him unless I wanted to get divorced. (he loves my smile I guess) he didn't tell me at the time we were dating. My husband is divorced and has slept with many people...I have only slept with him. He told me to sleep with someone else just so I know what its like but I don't think I can do it. I'm afraid of what it will do to our relationship. My husband says he ruined my life but I feel like I ruined my exboyfriends life. i just don't know what to do I'm afraid temptation will get the best of me and I don't have any friends that won't blab in our small town. I see my ex almost every day and if I don't I can't stop thinking about him.

2007-05-03 15:02:42 · 6 answers · asked by togobackintime 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He flirted and we like each other but don't tell anyone, should I tell him while there? My friends pester me about it.

2007-05-03 15:01:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can a guy really fall in love with someone else that quickly? How can he get over it so fast?
Would appreciate some serious answers.

2007-05-03 15:00:41 · 15 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok so theres this boy at my school i really really like.
And actually he started liking me first.
So thats not the problem.
But I'm afraid kids are gunna make fun of us if we date.
I want to but i hate how involved other kids have to get.

I know that now isn't even going to matter in
A year,
Or even a week in this case.
But right now it sucks to get made fun of.

Hes not ugly or fat
AT ALL!!!
Actually he's the last thing from that.
And he's really sweet,
Like nicer than any guy I've ever even thought of dating.
But kids are weird at our school.

What should i do?
Date him, or not?

2007-05-03 15:00:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 14:58:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance works for the railroad. He calls me when he leaves for work, when he gets to the town he travels to, when he leaves there, and when he gets back home. (He works all different hours, on call). I recently found out he calls him mom every time too. It bothers me because why would he need to call her every time like he does me? He says it's because she wants to know he's okay and didn't get in a wreck or something but he calls me so if I didn't hear from him I would know and could tell her myself. I just think it's unneccesary. He says he's always been close with his mom but I think that's a little extreme. I'm close with my mom too but I don't call her every single day. I just feel like there should be some things that he only does for me... like I'm the only one he calls when he's going to and back from work. I just think it would be ridiculous to do once we get married especially. It's hard to explain because I don't really have a reason for why it bothers me but it does.

2007-05-03 14:56:17 · 39 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend will talk to me in public like around my sister and stuff but sometimes he just mumbles and is it just because he is shy and he doesn't like to show affection to the public?We hardly ever talk at school and when I try talking to him while were walking down the street from school all he does is mumble.

2007-05-03 14:55:12 · 1 answers · asked by girl_n_luv281 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a few friends that are my age (14) and they don't really talk about guys that much. They do every once in a while but not that much. They haven't had boyfriends before, does this mean they are a lesbian or are they just shy about talking about guys? Some of them are shy and quiet.

2007-05-03 14:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not my usual dorky self around him. ( and trust me, I am a dork!) He has told me, he likes my dorkiness, but he's never seen me be myself ( before we started going out .)
He's told me he has, but when I wasn't watching!

2007-05-03 14:50:16 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Broadway 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm gettin together with a old friend from college next week and back in college I kinda use to have a thing for her...but then kinda lost interest and we kept lil communication

i am somewhat attracted to her but im like that with all girls...gonna grab some food next week should i do lunch or dinner? she workin 8-5pm so lunch would be only for like 30-45 mins or less dependin on her lunch but if we do dinner we dont have to rush or anything cuz itd be after 6pm plus we can jus hang out or whatever afterwards. what do u think i should do? and what to do afterwards? Thanks.

2007-05-03 14:46:57 · 6 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy named sean and hes black and im white. some of my friends are kool with it but others say its totally wrong. is it wrong or is it normal for ppl of different races to like one another???

2007-05-03 14:46:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i would absolutely love to have plumeria (frangipani) flowers for my beach wedding. they're only grown in hawaii, and i'm not sure if they can ship them over. i tried emailing and calling a florist in hawaii, but didn't get a response. my wedding will be in st. pete beach, florida. any ideas?

2007-05-03 14:40:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

can u be friends with the ex this goes to if ppl that have had kids together and split do you think you would be friends or on talking terms if you didnt have kids to have you involved in eachothers lives?

2007-05-03 14:36:33 · 5 answers · asked by sugarpantsangel21 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are both into country music, and we can only think of a few songs to play at our wedding that we are planning. Please tell me any that u think would be nice.

2007-05-03 14:35:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-03 14:34:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my mom but we are just too alike. im sick of living unorganized and everyone says its jsut a phase im going through bcz im 16 but im so sick of doing everything her way. she is completely disorganized and anytime i try to do anything different then the way she thinks i should do it i get screamed at. i cant wait to be on my own but im sick of all the drama. i dont want to ruin our relationship over something like this. what do i do?


p.s. have i mentioned she is a control freak?

2007-05-03 14:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by lacy w 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-03 14:31:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A couple of things I need a little help with.

My situation: High School, sophomore, see this girl three or more times a day, shes in my grade. I'm more of a traditional guy - opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc. First date coming up - dinner/movie date, wondering how to proceed after. Never had a girl friend before, and hoping she is my first one.

1. How long after the first date should I call her and what do I say?
2. I notice a lot of kids holding hands and hugging/kissing in the hallway. How many dates until this becomes customary?

I know some of this may seem like obvious questions but any advice would be greatly appreciated. It would be better for those of you answerers who are in high school, guys or ladies that have been on dates.

2007-05-03 14:31:36 · 2 answers · asked by germanpilot450 2 in Singles & Dating

Is that good?

2007-05-03 14:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by BOB 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other now for a good two years. Lately it's been nothing but fight, after fight, after fight. We decided to take a break from each other and she started seeing someone else. She called me up one night about a week ago and told me she wanted to break up and start a relationship with this other guy. I was a bit shocked and very upset. Well... Apparently, that other guy had no interest in her lead her on and then dumped her about two days later.

It hurt me and I wasn't sure i wanted much to do with her anymore. She came to my house that night crying hysterically. I know she did not like the guy she dumped me for that much. She told me things were a bit awkward and she had plans on dumping him anyways. (weird) But anyways she came to me crying hysterically asking me to take her back. At that time I really wanted to work things out with her I love her i truley do.

Recently though, I've thought about our relationship and to be honest (be cont.)

2007-05-03 14:28:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok Here it is i am a 21 year old single male i have a Friend that i like and know for about 4 or 5 years now we met in high school she as a bf i know him me and him are cool but from time to time she breaks up with him so that in a way make me happy. but when it comes to me she get mad at every lil thing i do like not picking up my cellphone when she call me or complaining that i am not listening to her when she is talking. so sometimes we do our lil breaking up thing where we wont talk to each oter for weeks to a month then she will call me back like everthing was cool .now i have been changeing jobs because i am haveing problems with my job i was fed up with it and the people i work with so i told her i was quitting. i was called for a job interveiw a week before i quit my job . so i told my friend that i left my job and she kind of got me mad because she called me stupid because i left my job before finding out if i got the other job. now i am saying to myself what are u mad for.

2007-05-03 14:28:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there's this guy I've been casually dating for the past 2 months. We've been really happy with each other and we've never argued over anything. But we just realized that right now is a bad time for the both of us to be dating b/c we just have too much of a busy schedule and that we should see what summer brings. We need this time to concentrate on other priorities. Does this mean we are taking a break from dating each other?

2007-05-03 14:25:40 · 6 answers · asked by D. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have like milk chocolate eyes, but what do you prefer?

2007-05-03 14:25:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did anyone kick the shoes and socks off on the drive home? :)

2007-05-03 14:24:48 · 19 answers · asked by Gin Slinger 1 in Singles & Dating

It's like the whole world stops for just that special moment...

2007-05-03 14:23:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating