I have a few friends that are my age (14) and they don't really talk about guys that much. They do every once in a while but not that much. They haven't had boyfriends before, does this mean they are a lesbian or are they just shy about talking about guys? Some of them are shy and quiet.
2007-05-03 14:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that means that they're normal, you guys are too young to be dating
2007-05-03 14:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal, at 14 your focus shouldnt be on guys. yeah it's okay to talk about them, who looked cute that day or your biggest crushes, that's normal, but just bc they havent had a boyfriend doesnt mean that they're lesbians and kinda harsh to say. . . everygirl at some point in her life when she startes thinking about boys is shy, not knowing what to say or how to act, it's part of growing up, you'll all change and get more comfortable around guys and find out, being yourself is what gets a guy as well as a guy getting a girl. be yourself.
2007-05-03 22:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kreese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first off, they are 14!!! I think is perfectly normal not to have a boyfriend at that age. But there is, however, something wrong with you!! What kind of a person jumps at that conclusion about their "friends" when they are only 14?? If they had boyfriends, you'd probably be here asking if they were sluts??
2007-05-03 21:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does everyone think that just because of that, they are lesbian?! I have friends like that, but they aren't lesbian! You need to understand that some of them are really shy, especially if they have never done it before!
There's really no such thing as a lesbian anyways, it's just things that they put on your minds today...
2007-05-03 21:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by wallflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are shy and quiet then they are shy. think man. Just go to other girls that talk about boys.
2007-05-03 21:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They either aren't intrested in guys yet or they are shy? Or they might secretly like someone but are to shy to tell you
2007-05-03 21:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't mean that if they don't talk much about men that they are lesbians . . . they just don't have any reason why they should talk about us men. after all, there's nothing much to talk about about guys
2007-05-03 21:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by NAP II D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probably just not into guys yet, your 14 you should be studying or something besides worrrying if your friends are lesbians or not
2007-05-03 21:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by se_sme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really? I'm a guy and i'm the same way about chicks.
they might be lesbian. shame.
2007-05-03 21:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by jenny_ortega_luvz_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are taking there time.
Your only 14 you and your friends have a lot of time ahead of you.
2007-05-03 21:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋