i always fall for the wrong guy, and I get completely head over heels. now i have finally found the perfect guy and he likes me but all i have is lust for him! what do i do?I really want to be crazy about him
2007-05-03 15:05:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With bad boys - its generally a physical, oh damn aint he sumthn, type attraction.
With this good guy - you know u like him (lusting him) but you aren't head over heels. maybe he isn't as attractive as the bad boys. Seriously - give it time! Get to know him, tell him exactly that. That you wanna get to know him more.
I've fallen for a few guys, once i got to know them i was so uninterested. My bf now, at the start - i liked him - but not as much as i had with all the other guys. Over time i realised how much i love him. If at the start i just decided - hey he's a nice guy, fun to be around, treats me well but there's no immediate sparks as with the other guys. Then I would have lost a great thing
hang in there! keep away from those bad boys
(edit: i agree with someone above- wait b4 jumping in the sack, did that with my bf til i knew my feelings were true blue - i now know he isn't in this relationship just for sex bcuz he didn't mind waiting to get to know me first)
2007-05-03 15:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not sure that's the perfect guy for you if you only want him because of lust. Perhaps you should postpone a serious relationship with men until you decide to get married to someone you really love in all categories: personality, physical appearance, character, intelligence, kindness, etc.
2007-05-03 15:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Adel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take everything slow. If he's the right guy for you, you can wait for him, and vice-versa. While taking things slow, you can get to more information about him and he'll know more about you. By not jumping into the sack with him, you'll know whether or not this guy is worth it.
Good luck! Hope this helps
2007-05-03 15:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Aztec girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you mustn't have emotions merely from seeing them and speaking them for a second. once you've regular her for a lengthy time period that is comprehensible, yet feeling like that round random human beings isn't time-honored.
2016-12-05 07:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD GET TO KNOW HiM A LiTLLE MORE SO YOU'LL HAVE MORE FEELiNGS THAN JUST LUST!! THATz THE BEST WAY : )
2007-05-03 15:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make yourself like someone and trying could hurt both of you in the future.
2007-05-03 15:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by lacy w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lust can turn into love.
give it timw
2007-05-03 15:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your name is Anna and you are probably blonde ........... what do you expect?
2007-05-03 15:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋