I finally found the courage to write a letter to a guy whom I’ve been deeply in love with for almost 3 years now....For 3 years I have not told him my feelings....I got tired of holding everything inside and thought I owed him that much to tell him how much I yearn for him..
He and I use to talk often, but because of some misunderstandings we have not spoken for quite a while, and I reunited with him by sending a love letter full of passion for him.
3 weeks has gone and he still haven't replied to my letter (I left my phone numbers in the letter and I sent letter by FedEx so I know he got it for sure) ....How long should I wait before I expect to get a response, or do you think he will never reply because of a 3 week time span? Should I give him time to think?...Or You think he is not interested..
We are separate countries at the moment, because I recently moved away for studies...I don’t got he’s cell phone number now- just his work number and his work address- which I got through a friend of his and mine. His number changed after he went back to his home country for 9 months then relocated. Do you think it was a bad idea that I wrote a letter confessing my love for him? Or do you think it was the wrong thing to do?
Do you think I should call him and ask him if he got the letter? Or should I wait a bit longer -or should I just move on?
2007-05-03 16:50:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did write my phone numbers in the letter and he already knows my email address...
2007-05-03 17:03:48 · update #1
LOL. C.E maybe ur right
2007-05-03 17:07:04 · update #2
Ok, honey..I am about to give you a very mature answer..since i am 60 yrs old, i think that qualifies. first of all, you did right by telling him how you feel, if you have had these feelings, it is ok to tell him. Since you put the ball in his court, you MUST wait for him to respond..a follow up letter would only scare him away and could be considered stalking. there may be several reasons he hasnt replied..one, he isnt interested and is embarrased to tell you that. two, he is thinking about it and waiting to reply til he evaluates his feelings before he responds..three, he already has someone. now then, let it go for now, he might not be interested at this time, BUT he knows now how you feel and possibly in the future he may begin to have feelings for you and will remember the letter. but whatever you do, don't call him aor send anymore mail, this could really scare him away..my most mature advice is WAIT ..good luck, if he is the one, it will come together soon..if not..well, you tried and have lost nothing.
2007-05-05 16:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by judy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like something, the "new has worn off" and also you want to concentration on purely having a good courting. As time progresses you detect more and more the reason why you adore one yet another and would concentration on real happiness. there are countless belongings you may want to do to augment your love life that are distinctly basic. i'd advise you get some books and carry out slightly reading or purely have a heart to heart communicate about romance. Marriages and relationships do no longer fail because the novelty wears off, they purely progression right into a superior state the position the couple is really centred on the excitement of being mutually. I actually were married for 4 years
2016-11-25 00:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by rosette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you done the right thing in writing him the letter because if you had not then you would have always had wished and wondered what would have happened. 3 weeks is a long time, I think you should go ahead and call him to see that he got the letter, at least that will put your mind to rest. If you wish to carry the conversation further and ask what he thought of it... Well, that is your call.
2007-05-03 17:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by angiee631 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait ! men arent the best writers though! many find it hard to express themself in a letter form and he may be waiting for you to come home! most guys would rather talk in person if they are interested! if you need to talk to him i suggest that you write him another letter and include your address and phone number as well as your email address and make it a simple hi i am good , my life is good, i was wandering if you got my letter also! hey, give me a call sometimes.. or something like that!
2007-05-03 17:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, poor baby. Being in love can be such joy and elation it's almost like floating. It can also be sad and hurtful. My Daddy thoughts are with you and your broken heart. Yes, it is time to move on. You still have our love and the love of your family and friends. You gave it your best shot sweetie. XO.
2007-05-04 07:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him one more week, then send a final letter.
"Your silence is your answer. I hope the best for you in your new life. I shall lead mine"
2007-05-03 17:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was brave of you to tell him now just wait for him to respond. It was a lot for him to take in. Now he has to figure out what he is going to do. Just be patient he will contact you.
2007-05-03 17:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ga's Peach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think that you should call him, just to know how you guys stand at the moment. however, be prepared to hear some stuff that might break your heart, cause he sounds like he's not interested.
2007-05-03 16:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by silivren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got the letter. you know he got the letter.
it's over, move on.
sorry
2007-05-03 17:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks?? he isnt gonna respond, if he was interested he wouldve responded as sooon as he got the letter..... dont fool yourself, he's NOT interested. move on
2007-05-03 16:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋