everyone advises that i break up with her but i just CAN"T(i realize i am being a baby) i feel too bad i don't know what to do. please any advice wil help but please don't suggest cheating on her.
2007-05-03 18:26:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit acting like a wimp and just tell her shes not the one you wanna spend your life with. Keeping her hanging on is not doing her any favors. Your wasting her time that she could be looking for a real man.
2007-05-03 18:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you need to break it to her. Cheating on her or doing other things to hurt her in order for her to eventually break up with you is WRONG. You are hurting her more by not telling her the truth and treating her bad to get her to break up with you is bad because she thinks that you honestly care about her and she might take it as you guys just need to work on your relationship more. You will be sending her the wrong messages. If you lead her on giving her the idea you still really like her and want to continue with your relationship when you truly don't want to you are creating more problems then trying to solve one. She won't like you breaking up with her but hurting her and leading her on because you can't do it yourself, is much worse. Please consider all of this. Good luck.
2007-05-04 01:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by honey bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and say i dont think this is working out or just tell her u want to be friends and nothin more i mean that she will get a little mad but if she is ur friend then she will for give u, because u dont want to hurt her, ive actually had an ex say the reason he broke up with me is because he didnt want to cheat on me with my best friend even though he already did at homecomming and i got really pissed because the way i found out through my friends and that he shoved his toung down her througt and dont say that because she will get really up set more than if u just tell her the truth!
2007-05-04 01:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by scout {{a.k.a princess}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know breaking ups pretty hard
but sometimes you just gotta
otherwise you might be with her for a little longer
and theres no good way to brake up
its hard to get a girl to brake up with you
just try telling her
but let her down easily,
dont be too straight forward
2007-05-04 01:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by _loveeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let her break up with you you will resent yourself after. Just man up and do it you wimp. Im sure your not some greek god she'll never get over. Grow a pair.
2007-05-04 01:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jim B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got a really easy suggestion. let her read your question. its sad you are leading her on and aren't man enough to break up with her. so sad, i hope you grow up eventually.
2007-05-04 01:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by jess_85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her. Either way her feelings are going to be hurt. It is best for you just to tell her.
2007-05-04 01:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she realizes what a pathetic little **** you are she will... Grow some nuts...
2007-05-04 01:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by raildog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a fag and dump her already.
2007-05-04 03:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by tolucamex323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show her ur small wang and she will dump you in a snap
2007-05-04 01:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋