Yes or no? ur opinion matters?

Question

I have decided to be alone for a long time without friends.
I want to pamper myself and do alot of things alone, like going for a shopping, going to a movie, having a dinner outside, going for a drive and having ice cream alone and sitting in a nice lovely sorrundings like a park or somewhere for sometime all alone listening to some nice songs.
Only thing is that I dont have confidence, I am scared what if I meet some bad boys when I go to see a movie or be alone in the park. How do I take their comments? How do I behave when they say something bad.
Please tell me what should I do?
Can u guys tell me what comments do u pass when u see a girl all alone? Do u think I should do all these things or not?

Answer 1

I like being all alone when I go on my evening walks. It gives me time to think and reflect on what I'm done and what I'm going to do.

Answer 2

You sound like you want to retreat from the world. Sounds as though you have been hurt. I have been like this and would still like to find that quiet, wild secluded place in the world where only nature and God rules. The thing is we are social creatures and cannot live alone for long. Loneliness descends like a chilling vapour if I stay alone for too long and it feels like I'm separated from reality. It is a very unpleasant sensation. Happiness is found when our soul is at a meeting point with God-and He wants us to be with other Godfearing people. You will find that true contentedness through joining a God centred church. May He bless and protect you.

Answer 3

You have a lot of imagination! The only problem is that all these activities are primarily for social animals and not for loners.. Do you think that having an Ice cream alone is thrilling? No... not at all. I think you are the only child of your parents and think that you, dad and mother makes the world.You have a split attitude of doing everything others do alone but at the same time you are scared of the world. You long for comments from others but does not want others to hear that. You really long for appreciation but you are totally intolerant to criticism( when heard by others).

Be a social animal, my dear! You are a nice person by yourself but there are other nice persons waiting for your company. Give them what they want and they will give you what you visualized..... All the best!!

Answer 4

Well i do that kind of stuff alot, but usually have my 3 yr old with me too.
I'm from the UK, its pretty safe where i live to go about alone by day, i do go at night alone sometimes for a walk or to the shop
I always make sure i have my mobile phone with me in case i do get into any trouble.
Try being somewhere where there is lots of people but sit alone, that way if you do get scared or someone gives you trouble theres lots of people about you can run to or call to help. xxx

Answer 5

Why would you keep yourself from having fun and enjoying life, just because of the vague possibility of someone somewhere in time making a comment about something?

I don't pass any comments when I see a girl alone. I know better than to shoot my mouth to random people.

Answer 6

No!!I cannot blame you for deciding to be alone. But the thing is you cannot feel the real happiness if you are just doing evrything all by yourself...Remember the old odd says?"No man is an island"It's true,see you are lack of confidence b'coz there's no one beside you to affirm you.to give you comfort,support and inspires you...I suggest if you are a timid type of person,join an organization or participate on a church or even in community service.In that case you might be able to have friends that will accept you and understands you for who you are....and in that sense you will be able to established self confidence.

Answer 7

WHERE EVER YOU GO, BE SURE THAT THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE AROUND; AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE LATE AT NIGHT. LET SOME ONE KNOW WHERE YOU WILL BE, AND WHAT TIME YOU WILL BE BACK. INFORM THEM IF YOU ARE LATE. DON'T WEAR ANYTHING TO FLASHY OR REVEALING. KEEP YOUR JEWELRY TO THE MINIMUM. DON'T MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH STRANGERS. IF SOMEONE APPROACHES YOU, BE POLITE BUT FIRM IF YOU HAVE TO ANSWER A QUESTION. DO NOT START A CONVERSATION OR KEEP IT GOING. WALK AWAY IF THAT PERSON DOES NOT TAKE THE HINT. TAKE A BOOK WITH YOU . PRETEND YOU ARE BUSY. CALL A FRIEND ON YOUR CELL PHONE. AND LAST OF ALL TRUST YOUR GUT FEELING. GOOD LUCK AND KEEP SMILING.

Answer 8

staying alone and enjoying things alone for a short break isnt a bad idea...its sometimes good for a person when he/she really is interested in taking a break from life...and u sound like one,so i'd suggest u to take a chance for sure...try it and see how things would change...as far as the "bad boys" (as u mentioned) or people saying annoying things part is concerned...u neednt give a damn to all these things or rather people...useless and worthless people comment on other people...when they have nothing to do they waste their lives by doing this...and wht i'd like to suggest u is that be confident and believe in urself...and when u'll start doing this,trust me even u wouldnt care about such people...they are plain USELESS creatures...so..take a chance and enjoy ur time to the fullest...and consider such kinda people as invisible for ur life is urs and u have the right to do whtever u want to...all the best..and enjoy..!!

Answer 9

why would you want to be all alone?
What about just 1 friend
I think choosing to have a life without anyone else not even friends to share it with, will be a very lonely one
Like you say you have no confidence so are you really going to have the confidence to go sit and eat in a restaurant by yourself?
I don't make any comment when i pass a girl by herself!!
As for people making comments to you, ignore them, rise above their pathetic attempt to embarrass you
You are better than them

Answer 10

Time alone in safe areas are okay, why, having some time alone with yourself could be the most wonderful experience. It gives you the chance to know yourself, set goal, re-orientate your life, or just simply.... rest your mind and let you love yourself. Of course, when visiting places might pose a danger to yourself when your alone, best be with a girl friend who is close to you. Gives you time to bond together too.