I feel so connected to my best boy friend.. I like him a lot.
I am also married and love my husband alot.
I feel that I am love both of them alot. any advice or suggestion?
2007-05-03 14:10:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your husband should be your best friend.......no you can't love them the same unless they are the same person and in your case they are not.........
2007-05-03 14:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oddly enough, I married my best boyfriend. We had everything a great love and a great relationship should have to endure the hardships of marriage. But it didn't. We were divorced quickly. I will tell you, we are still best friends, still have all the feelings we had before we married, and were able to save everything because we cared so deeply but realized that there was something missing in our "friendship". being connected to someone is a deep relationship, however doesn't mean that you love them more than your husband, just differently. your answer is in your question. Don't think that you love them both the same and if you have an attraction to your friend, knock it off.
2007-05-03 21:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love you have for your husband should be different than the love you feel for your best friend.
2007-05-03 21:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looks like cheating may be on your mind,You can not love your husband if you love another man get a grip you know better than that you just want someone to tell you it's alright.
2007-05-03 21:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, respect your husband. Do not let your feelings for this friends grow. If you can't control it then you need to let the friend go.
2007-05-03 21:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... get a concubine... ask you husband for blessing...if both man agree then you will have a hell of a good time...
And of course if either one does not agree...then you know the answer...
take care..
2007-05-03 21:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you intend to (or have you had) sex with your "best boy friend"?
Yes, you *can* love them both in the same way but...eventually you're going to have to chose. And unless they're willing to "share" you its not going to be very fair to either one of them should you decide to carry one with both of them.
In the end, its going to come down to a "pros & cons" list type of thing.
2007-05-03 21:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you have mixed feelings and now they or conflicting i hope you tell your husband about this. and your husband should be your best friend
2007-05-03 21:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by mccormick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. You have sex with your husband, not with a boy who is just a friend.
If you do, that friend is more than just a friend!
2007-05-03 21:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by orangegarfieldcartoon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Threesome to Me!
2007-05-03 21:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Alissandrya 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋