everyday after that, sometimes 30 times a day for hours at a time. I never checked the cell phone bills i trusted him.i didn't start suspecting anything until almost 10 mths later.i investigated and found out on my own.i cant get a real answer from him for why he did. so i just keep going over it in my head.asking why.he want tell the truth.he obviously enjoyed her conversations, as far as sex he says it was just the excitement of it being new yeah right, it must have been better than with me. he had a faithful wife i thought we were on top of the world. i think he was falling in love this woman. he was willing to jeopardize everything. he had sex with her 1 mth after meeting her and this contiuned i don't know exactly how many times. i don't understand. i would have done anything for him.i thought our sex was great, never told no. how could he live with himself or face me knowing what he was doing.he says he liked the control she would drop her plans to see him. wow he had a wife home
2007-05-03 23:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I sure hope that you got rid of this jerk. If he did it once, he will do it again.
2007-05-03 23:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but how long did you know this man before you married him? Also it seems you hav'nt a lot of experience with the opposite sex. Please take the opportunity date different men and always be observant without being noticed. I'm not saying go and be a hoochy, but don't limit yourself, learn from the men you date, and take your time!! But most importantly say goodbye to your husband, the longer you stay the harder it will be for your self esteem and than you may not have any left.
2016-04-01 08:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please drop this guy. So he slept with someone because he wanted "new" goods! Yeah right, whatever he did with her he could have did with you. Its not "new" its just different! It was new to him and probably old to half the neighborhood! Hope his fascination with the "new" goods don't give him an old incurable disease. Your better than that. He really sounds lame with all these stupid excuses. Don't ask him about the affair, ask him if he can meet you at the nearest courthouse for an annulment, if its too late for that a divorce should do the trick!
2007-05-04 01:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you're still not married to him. He doesn't understand what marriage means cos he has no qualms going out there and getting some like he's still a bachelor. Wifey's just benefits to cook/clean for him and have some fun with once in a while. God, I hope you kick him to the kerb and take him for what he's worth after what he's done to you.
Divorce that jerk & make him pay dearly in the divorce. He's never going to change. Marriage isn't going to change him one bit.
2007-05-03 23:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this hun! I think that you need to ditch the B******. he is no good for you. He should have told you that he is not ready for marriage, now look what he has done! he has just caused you misery and pain... if he is not willing to let go of this other women and try to patch your'lls marriage... let him go!!!
2007-05-03 23:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Nes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st & 4most do u still trust him..
i dun hav e right to tell u to end ur marriage
but u got to make a wise decision if u do not want 2b hurt any more!!!!!
do u think he deserves a 2nd chance wen he did not think of his wife wen he slept wif another woman....
as per my xperience, giving sum1 a 2nd chance did not benefit me at all...
sumtimes u juz got 2b heartless!!!!!!!
2007-05-03 23:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by letch_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a fool. If my wife never refused me, I would be in heaven. Sorry that you have had such a bad experience.
2007-05-04 00:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all the time the same problems between women and men...
our minds works in a different way...
for us, man, sex its only a tool to throw away our semen...
while for women, sex is a supreme act of love etc etc etc...
we, man, need QUANTITY... of course the quality is important sometimes, but in our minds, we need to got many chicks as we can... its our nature...
i'm sorry about your marriege, but i'm ttelling you the truth.
Brazil
2007-05-03 23:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now you start doing the same as what your husband did so that your hubby will realise what he has done.
2007-05-03 23:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Prashant S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is taking you for granted. Does he even know that he has done you wrong?
2007-05-03 23:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by james 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋