Family & Relationships - 7 May 2007

just had a baby a month ago and i have alittle weight to lose lost alot but still im not the size i once was. Im embarrassed to be kinky or even have sex due to the babyfat i have how do i get over it?

2007-05-07 17:20:14 · 12 answers · asked by linseynicoleharmon 1 in Singles & Dating

who comes home from work and relaxes. Okay, I allowed it. now after 22 years I'm tired. How do I approach the situation? He has to be taught..empathic, sympathetic.... *sighs* how can I teach without feeling frustrated?!!?

2007-05-07 17:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-07 17:17:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my g/f cassie because i still had lots of feelings for my ex g/f jess. I told cassie that i did not want to be with her anymore but it seems she didnt really care, she tried to have me change my mine with grabbing my balls. The only thing she thinks about is partying and sex and she is also pregnant with my baby. I dont know what to do, she wont listen to me, stop partying because she is pregnant. I am back together with my ex g/f jess but we have alot to work out in our relationship. She checked out of the hospital but she has to take it easy because she has a risky pregnancy. we are in high school. I got her flowers and chocolote but i put it on her porch because she didnt want to talk to a jerk like me that cheated on her. she saw myself walking from the house and she came out. We talked and i told her i am so sorry for what i did to her and i will never do it again. We almost kissed but i stopped, she told me it was ok if i kissed her, so i did. i love jess alot.

2007-05-07 17:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok bo i like and kind of likes me and he always said he hates me but his bff tells me everything and i cant take it anymore it sucks soo bad and its kind of hard to talk to him

2007-05-07 17:16:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 17:16:27 · 3 answers · asked by Ebony S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just wondering, would you tell or just ignore the whole thing?

2007-05-07 17:15:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-07 17:12:05 · 2 answers · asked by jhud_19531 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have his name and address, but, don't have his e-mail. where can i find this and from who? his name is Darren Williams and he lives in Columbia, South Carolina.

2007-05-07 17:09:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I can't stand this life. It sucks. My sister pours a jar of jam on me everyday. And when I wash it off I'll get grounded.
I'm planning to kill myself tomorrow. Any tips?
Overdose on aspirins??
Also, my teacher calls me a "fat tortoise" everyday. I feel so unwanted and unloved!

2007-05-07 17:05:45 · 38 answers · asked by Siew M 1 in Family

My mom and I have always been pretty close, but in the last 2 years she has been kind of draining me. She is very irresponsible and spends her money without thinking about paying her bills. My mother is a huge procrastinator and it sadly runs in my blood to but I have worked along time on trying to correct my procrastination and I have been doing awsome. She always tries to tell me how to parent my 3 children and even will tell them that they can do something right after she hears me tell them no. We rent the same barn and pasture where our horses stay, but I am always having to tell her they need hay(she buys the hay, I take care of watering, cleaning and feeding) and that her horse needs hooves trimmed and so on. Every time I talk about her, hear her voice, talk to her I end up feeling worse than I did before and completely drained. She always speeks in fact instead of opinion and constantly tells me how I should lead my life. What should I do?

2007-05-07 17:03:46 · 3 answers · asked by elizabeth 4 in Family

i cant talk on the reply it wont let me but if you check ur mail that would work i sent you something i think

2007-05-07 17:03:01 · 1 answers · asked by Harley C 2 in Singles & Dating

When a relationship is in trouble, what gives you ladies the right to go out and find someone who will make you feel good about yourselves? Why cant you be responsible adults and tell your spouse what is bothering you and put forth the effort to fix your relationship instead of taking the easy way out and banging the first swinging dick who makes you feel special? People fall in love by chance, stay together with work and fall out of love by choice. That was sent to me and it is true. You cant do that to someone! It isn't right! Why would you not work on your relationship? Does the feelings of someone else mean that little to you that you can plunge the dagger and not care about the bloodshed?

2007-05-07 17:02:13 · 43 answers · asked by da_catcar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My divorce from a nine year marriage (14 year relationship) is almost finale. It was an abusive marriage and ended very badly. He is moving away and will probably never see our two small children again. He does pay his child support so I guess he thinks that is enough. The thing is even with every awful thing that happened and went on , I am still having a hard time moving on. I know I can’t go back because of the violence and I love my children and myself to much to live that way. I just feel so empty right now. I miss having someone to cook for , do laundry for and go out with. I guess I just miss being a wife to someone. I do not want to jump into a relationship because I want to work on me. I want to know who I am and become stronger on my feet. Build my self esteem back up. It is all the memories that I can not stop thinking about. Certain songs, places and people. We were high school sweet hearts and he has been my one and only guy I have ever been with intimately. I want to hate him so much and I should after what he did to me. I am just having a hard time with moving on. He is a very successful business man and I am afraid I will never meet someone like that again. But then I know that money is not happiness. When I left him I left everything , the house, the new care , all my possessions. I never cared about any of that stuff. He just makes me feel inadequate to him and I feel like I need to prove to him that I am a better person than him. Even though I KNOW that I am better. Because I love people with my heart not just because I have something to gain from them. It makes me sick to think of him making love to someone else. Why can’t I just move on!! I know what the right thing is to do but my heart won’t let me let go. What can I do? I am in counseling already.

2007-05-07 16:59:58 · 14 answers · asked by renee125 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's light pink, with black polka dots. It's got a halter type sleeves. There is a black bow tied around the waist with the bow at the back. The bottom has some crinoline so the skirt flares out a bit and the skirt goes a little past the knees. Is it appropriate for a summer wedding?

2007-05-07 16:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well I just told my friend since 8th grade (we're in 10th grade now) that I like him. I feel bad now cause I feel like I ruined our friendship but he said I haven't ruined anything. Was telling him that I like him the right thing to do?

2007-05-07 16:57:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ever since I met this girl Iam lossig sleep ,I am walking around in a daze all I do is think about her and when i am going to see her . what do i do /

2007-05-07 16:57:07 · 10 answers · asked by joseph s 1 in Singles & Dating

lately there is this guy who everyone thinks is adorable in my mormon church...
i dont like him and im not in love with him, but for some reason they r telling me they think we will b perfect 2gether...
im not interested and i dont even wanna go on a date with him...he is not my type and he will never be...
i feel like they r forcing me to b w/ someone i dont even wanna like and love......
yes, he is nice and all but i dont think i will ever fall in love with him..i know im shallow in some ways but i dont want an average looking guy...i want a HOT and i mean HOT guy...
he is def not HOT so i said no to go on a date w/ him...
everyone thinks im mean and shallow...and they think im a bad person now...
it just makes me angry that people expect me to do something that i dont want...what can i do to get my good image back?

2007-05-07 16:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by prettyinpink i 5 in Singles & Dating

If your future spouse confesses to being with many others, and commiting terrible things that go against your beliefs:and are still in love w/ her can you judge especially if you gave your sacred virginity to some one who was not what they said they were? Is It fair? What should I do?

2007-05-07 16:56:23 · 4 answers · asked by diab 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend's dad passed away late February from lung cancer. I have been best friends with her for over 11 years, since we were 5 years old. However since her dad passed she won't speak to me. I took basically a week off of school helping her and her mom with funeral plans and picture slide shows of this wonderful man. I worked the day that they had a party in celebration of his life, I held her mom when she cried, but my friend didn't cry but once in front of me. I really don't understand her ways of grieving. The man was like an uncle to me, a second father and her mother is my mother. And she is my sister. So not only did i lose a father, it's like i lost a whole part of my family. My friend won't answer the phone when i call her, and her mother won't answer my mothers. What can i do to help her? What can I do to have her back in my life?

2007-05-07 16:54:49 · 3 answers · asked by supershoemaker2 1 in Family

Judge your opinion on my qu's & a's.

2007-05-07 16:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom wants me to come home because it is too much for her to pay for i dont want to come home yet but on the other hand im not doing so well how can i tell her.i dont want to come home but im not doing good.

2007-05-07 16:50:50 · 1 answers · asked by angel20ph 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you seem to have all the answers

2007-05-07 16:49:56 · 3 answers · asked by Harley C 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know - I am in the U.S he is in England - I have 3 kids - he has none ............... but is love enough? I think so ............... but alot of people think I am stupid ........lol .......

2007-05-07 16:47:10 · 3 answers · asked by adamay74 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom has been yelling at me (for simple things) ever since I was kid. Now i am 30 and she still does it. My brother does much bigger mistakes and she rarely notices it. I have tried my best to passify her but I am unable to change her, even a bit. Tried every trick in the book, but does work. I need advice pleaseeee :-(. By the way I am married for over 3 years and it is going on soo well.

2007-05-07 16:46:31 · 20 answers · asked by a_a_abhishek 2 in Family

an unplanned pregnancies dont go through your head?

2007-05-07 16:46:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering how many times you think its gonna be before it actually feels good?

2007-05-07 16:38:48 · 5 answers · asked by soxbabee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for almost 11 years. We have been separated for a little more than a year now; we have not lived together or even talked about getting back together.. things were pretty bitter between us, but all has been calmed down for the last couple of months. I still love him very much. So, about a week ago, I wrote him an email asking him if he would consider coming back home. I wasn't even expecting him to admit he'd even read it, because he usually just ignores my emails, no matter what they are about. It took like 4 or 5 days, but I got a big shock Friday night when I found a reply from him waiting in my inbox! He didn't say yes.. but he didn't say no. He said he was thinking about it. He said there was a great deal of things to just forget about, and he really needed to think about it before he gave me an answer one way or another. I can hardly contain myself. I don't know what to say to him now, I'm trying very hard not to press the issue. More to be added

2007-05-07 16:38:45 · 28 answers · asked by Misty C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel totally left out. She never has time to do anything with me. It's always, "ohh, I'm sorry, I told Peter I'd hang out with him this weekend." and when we talk, it's only about him! He was gone on a college visit this past week and weekend and all we, meaning she, talked about was how much she missed him and how wonderful he is. I don't want to feel jelous and I don't want to hate him (he's really nice!), but I feel like the third wheel. We've been best friends for six years and now I get shoved aside because of someone she's dated for sixth months. Help!?

2007-05-07 16:38:33 · 16 answers · asked by lea 4 in Singles & Dating

Met some girl on the other day at a bar and got her number... My friends are saying to wait til tomorrow to call her back. That would make it 3 days.

2007-05-07 16:37:38 · 9 answers · asked by mike! 2 in Singles & Dating