If you saw your friend going out with another friends girl, would you tell him?

Question

I'm just wondering, would you tell or just ignore the whole thing?

Answer 1

let her find out on her own. it can damage your friendship if you tell her and she takes his side [which she very likely will] and she might accuse you of just being jealous and bitter. if you made a mistake and her boyfriend wasn't really cheating, or it was just a little thing that blew over, you could end up looking like an idiot.

the fact that a guy is cheating is something that girls just have to figure out themselves, especially if they're absolutely silly over the guy.

so no. i wouldn't tell her. um, i wouldn't neccesarily ignore it, like i might be a bit aloof with him, but i wouldn't try to hint to her or anything either.

Answer 2

Sure would - nobody deserves to be cheated on. If you're afraid to approach your friend, you could drop casual things, like - Hey are (his name) and (her name) working on a project together or something?
And then when he says no, he's going to want to know why you asked, and there's your opening. Oh, cuz I saw them out at (place) and I was wondering why you weren't there with them.
Then you've given him the info, and he can do with it what he will. And there's less chance of him getting pissed at you for telling him something that he really won't want to hear. Good luck ;)

Answer 3

If i saw one of my friends going out with another friends partner, regardless of if it was a male or female yes i would tell. I would probably just say it sneakily. Talk to the partner and say i saw such n such out together the other day - they must have a secret planned for you!!

Act all innocent heh

Answer 4

Well, it depends on what I saw them doing. If they were just hanging out, definitely no--I have no proof of anything. If I saw them going at it under the bleachers, then I would probably throw a rock at them, and then tell my friend (in the gentlest way possible).

Answer 5

Depend on the terms my fren & I. Once i had a v close GF, whom aways v devoted to all her BFs. Starting1 new relationship, she will think of marrying them.. Abt 3yrs back, my Gf's BF call me evertim aft he alighted her for work. I can sensed sumtin wasnt right. Although our conversion was simple.. ask me hw m i, my works goin....etc. To me i knew that my Gf is a quite sensitive gal therefore i dare not tell her until last dec she broken up w him & fallen for another guy. At that time , i did told her that his Bf did call me...etc, n i make it short & sweet to end the call. She heard it & cant stand call him bk & confronted him. Feelin v bad, i shudnt tell her anyway bygones mean bygones... Some ppl can take it & most cant. Trust me!

Answer 6

nope. non of your business. do u want to lose two friends. Even though your intentions may be good, they both will see you differently. And the one who's being cheated on. It's a no win situation, he'll be mad for not telling, then be mad when you do tell.

Answer 7

i'd talk with the friend 1st and depending on his answers and what happened and weather or not he is gonna tell the other guy.
But talk to him and go off his answers and do what you think is right.
How would you feel if your girl was going out with another guy and one of your friends saw but didn't tell you?

Good Luck!

Answer 8

It's not your place to tell your friend, it will only cause hard feelings between the 2 of you. If he has any suspicions and asks you then you can tell him.

Answer 9

Easy, confront the girl about it, keep your friends out of it if at all possible. Tell her you know what's going on, and if she doesn't stop you'll tell her boyfriend.

Answer 10

I'd mind my own business. That is a no-win situation besides being something that you shouldn't be concerned with in the first place.