If your future spouse confesses to being with many others, and commiting terrible things that go against your beliefs:and are still in love w/ her can you judge especially if you gave your sacred virginity to some one who was not what they said they were? Is It fair? What should I do?
2007-05-07 16:56:23 · 4 answers · asked by diab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Confesses to being with many others or to having been with many others??? There is a big difference. One is past and one is present....
As for what a person does, tell me this:
Do you love the person or just what they do?
Do you hate what the person does or the person?
Because there is a big difference....
2007-05-07 17:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You no she didn't have to tell you, now did she, doesn't that count for something.Sometimes things are not as bad as they sound. Should one be judged for the rest of ones life for something that happened before you, even knew them and was long ago.How about you, haven't you, ever done anything your are ashamed of.
2007-05-08 00:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past. There is nothing that can be done about it. If you truly love this person, you will not hold her past against her, as she did it before she ever knew you. If she is who you want to be with, let it go and get on with your lives.
2007-05-08 00:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by 1978girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judge not, lest ye be judged.
2007-05-08 00:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋