just had a baby a month ago and i have alittle weight to lose lost alot but still im not the size i once was. Im embarrassed to be kinky or even have sex due to the babyfat i have how do i get over it?
2007-05-07 17:20:14 · 12 answers · asked by linseynicoleharmon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we women are way too critical of our appearance!![of course,i'm the same way as you!!]men[real men]don't really care,they like women who are kinky, than a model version of a woman who may be a log in bed!!
2007-05-08 07:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love your body as it is, and it will respond better. I don't have babyweigh, I just gained a lot of weight due to mental ilness. I felt like crap about it, but now I don't. I'm losing it slowly but surely, and I know I will look good again. Your man is no idiot, he understands, if at all notices. Nature made them so that they understand this part.
2007-05-08 00:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about it. i'm 17 and i had a baby a this year, and my baby weight is still kind of there and you can imagine how hard it is for me to go to school like this because i am a senior in high school. i just work out A LOT and i eat healthy. im almost back to my original weight.
2007-05-08 00:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by samantha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, your man will be happy that he can have sex with you and not have to picture his kid being inside of you anymore. And dont worry about the fat. At this point of taking care of your kid and the exhaustion he will be going through, the fact he can get off will be good enough for him. you could gain 20lbs and he probably wouldent even notice for awhile lol.
2007-05-08 00:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you're saying that all of your sexuality stems from your body image? first off, you need to forget that crap because it's bollocks. secondly, all it takes is a bit of confidence and you'll be back in the kink once again. there's way too much focus on "ideal body types" and shite like that. if a man doesn't like you for who you are, then he doesn't deserve a woman like you. the end.
2007-05-08 00:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by James 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are reeealy embarresed turn the lights off lol. If the boyfriend isnt embarresed im not sure why you are? He is probally just happy he is being sexed again
2007-05-08 00:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looky here, you had a baby, its your God given right to keep a few pounds after each baby. if your man cant handle that, tell him to have his own kids. the human race would die out in one generation. just strip down and get nasty. once your started, you wont care. :)
2007-05-08 00:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this were an important enough issue for you be thinking about it, then be pro-active and deal with it through exercise and dieting. It's your inner self confidence issue, and only you can deal with it.
2007-05-08 00:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie...get over it.
The baby was worth it all....now go relax, love and have fun.
Life is too short to stress about this.
You man wants you...after wating forever, they all do....
go have fun!
2007-05-08 20:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by naughty lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm gonna feel like a jerk for saying it first, but the easiest thing is to lose it first.
2007-05-08 00:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by QP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋