What do I do? please answer, my ex g/f cassie is pregnant and she wont stop partying?

Question

I broke up with my g/f cassie because i still had lots of feelings for my ex g/f jess. I told cassie that i did not want to be with her anymore but it seems she didnt really care, she tried to have me change my mine with grabbing my balls. The only thing she thinks about is partying and sex and she is also pregnant with my baby. I dont know what to do, she wont listen to me, stop partying because she is pregnant. I am back together with my ex g/f jess but we have alot to work out in our relationship. She checked out of the hospital but she has to take it easy because she has a risky pregnancy. we are in high school. I got her flowers and chocolote but i put it on her porch because she didnt want to talk to a jerk like me that cheated on her. she saw myself walking from the house and she came out. We talked and i told her i am so sorry for what i did to her and i will never do it again. We almost kissed but i stopped, she told me it was ok if i kissed her, so i did. i love jess alot.

Is it worth it choosing true love over sex. I am in love still with my ex g/f. She is in the hospital and may lose our unborn baby. We are only in high school. I never stopped loving her when she broke up with me because i told her i cheated on her with cassie. I visited her in the hospital and i told her everything will be ok. When the doctors told her that she may lose the baby, she started crying and she put her arms around me. i know she still has feelings for me. I will not try and hurt cassie, i will tell her that my heart belongs to jess and that i will still be there for her and our baby. Cassie loves to party and have sex with me, the sex is great but we are only in high school. she is hot and nice but there is more to a relationship then just sex. jess has everything i want in a girl,. shes nice, funny, beautiful, sexy, great personialty, great body and i am crazy about her. she rather be home with me watching a movie and cuddling then partying alot like cassie likes too.

Cassie is wilder then jess, cassie likes to party alot but jess perfect even is a night with me cuddled up on the couch watching a movie and i threw all of that away, what is wrong with me. i do have a job to support both of them. I will not give up until i am back together with jess, i love her alot. if she slaps me, i will take it and be there for her. if she loses the baby, i will not leave her side not for anything. i love her so much. I will be there for cassie because she is pregnant with my baby but my heart belongs with jess. Cassie is to wild for me, she partys all the time but i will stop her because of the baby, cassie is hot but i love jess, jess is beautiful to and i love her, jess is nice,caring,sexy,loving and she loves to cuddle with me while watching a movie. cassie wants to party and have sex with with me all the time well not all the time but alot. i am glad i am back together with jess and I WILL NEVER EVER CHEAT ON HER AGAIN, SHE IS MY LIFE AND SHE IS MY SOULMATE

i will still be there for cassie because of her pregnancy, i will still care for her but my heart belongs to jess. i will still take care of her. Jess has to take it easy because she is in a risky pregnancy. I got a job at walmart thats it. jess and cassie both works too. jess and cassie are both pregnant and we are in high school.

Answer 1

Just wait in til the baby is born from Cassie than have it taken away from her. Tell them that she likes to party and drink alot. I'm surprise the baby isn't dead with all the liquor in her system.

Answer 2

What the hell are you doing talking about your FEELINGS and your LOVE? Those things are inconsequential.

You better wake up and be a real man. You are at this point, the sperm donor that happened to make a big mistake, and for what I read, many big mistakes.

If the girl is partying, call child protective services and have her monitored. Everything that I read, even some of the answers, no one motioned how the CHILD will be affected. The child does not deserve this treatment nor does it deserve a mother who is a partying animal and a father who can't take the responsibility to be a man. I say have the baby and give it up for adoption to a couple who will not endanger and completely be ignorant!

If you are thinking about abortion, well, I think that it would be the worst thing to murder another human being that has no say so in it's own life.

Answer 3

First, you really need to make up your mind, know that you can't control them both nor can you be with them both. If jess is the one you want then you need to ask her how she feels about the pregnancy because you need to be there for cassi alot than you know. If she is on the verge of loosing this pregnancy you can't stop it or prevent only she can, you everyhting you or her do are only by choice and it really sounds that she is very immature with the situation at hand, she may be harming herself and the baby because she knows it will hurt you, and she's not thinking of the baby. Really talk to her parents because they have alot more on her authority wise than you and they may be able to help you in getting het to calm down and become more mature. Hang in there in the end everything will be fine and if it takes you ignoring what she does for a while.

Answer 4

First of all, if you are the father of both of these children you need to stop and take a good look at your future. Time to get serious. And don't get anyone else pregnant right now. I sounds like you are truly concerned for the health and well being of both of these girls and their unborn children,and I commend you for that. Perhaps you need to get the your parents and the parents of both girls involved and explain why you are so concerned. These unborn children don't have a choice of who their parents are and they deserve a fighting chance. If you are worried then talk to someone who may be able to speak on your behalf that these girls will listen to, such as a teacher , guidance counsellor,pastor anyone who they respect and look up to. If that doesn't work then you need to step up and exercise your rights as a father, be there for doctors appointments and hear first hand from the doctor as to the health of these unborn children. I wish you well, and give yourself a pat on the back for accepting responsibility for your mistakes.

Answer 5

You need to sit down and TALK TO HER... there are many mental illnesses and developmental delays that can happen to a baby when its mother drinks and smokes during pregnancy. (fetal alcohol syndrome for instance - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fetal_alcohol_syndrome )

If you and her want a healthy baby you both need to SHAPE UP AND GET RESPONSIBLE.

The child is both of yours and you both need to start treating it right. Just because it hasn't been born yet doesn't mean you're temporarily off the hook.

Do the right thing, and help the mother do it too. If she refuses, call the cops and have her arrested for under age drinking. You're the babies father and you need to look out for it if she isn't willing to do it herself.

Answer 6

Since you said you're only in high school, call the cops on her. Getting her arrested and in jail is better for the baby than having her be free to drink and party. It may seem harsh, but it's DEFINITELY worth it...and she deserves it.

When the baby is born, file for custody on the grounds that she was drinking while knowingly pregnant. Have your parents co-sign with you if necessary.

Answer 7

u going on &on like a mantra stop it! facts are:

1) u made 2girls pregnant
2) u love jess not cassie
3) u all in high school.

ok fine, do u know how many lives u have messed up with ur immiturity??!! its time to stop going round in cirles &face ur reality!

1) u will be there if jess losses her baby
2) u wil support cassie's child
3) u will concerntrate on high school not sex
4) u will get a part time job.

if u willing to play with a mans responsibility, then its time u behaved like one!

Answer 8

I'm a little confused. Are you saying that both of these girls are pregnant by you? Who do you actually want to be with? How old are you guys? If the party girl doesn't want to stop partying there isn't much you can do...She has to understand why she should stop on her own.

Answer 9

omg....sex is a very big thing...why did u make so little out of it? now u have two babies on the way! now u should take responisbility and be mature!

Answer 10

You better get a job better than Walmart