Family & Relationships - 7 May 2007

I'm facing a dilema right now. The question -> Should I ask my girlfriend to become my wife even if right now I'm not finacially stable and I can't afford a nice engagement ring at the momet? We love eachother very much and we know that we're meant to be. There is only the object of money that has put this situation in a bind. What should I do?

2007-05-07 17:55:53 · 13 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the most amazing sexual partner in your life, but you had nothing in common with and fought constantly?

Difficulty: no cheating or masturbation.

2007-05-07 17:54:33 · 16 answers · asked by milvis23 2 in Singles & Dating

I got engaged last night! I am so excited about being married to my one and only but the thought of organising a wedding is a little daunting! What mistakes of yours can I learn from?

2007-05-07 17:53:58 · 29 answers · asked by Livian 3 in Weddings

32 year and i single . i hot sexy .i have 2 work and home .i find to woman have really love and need live all life in raight love. 4aver in love and i have more love in my heart . but need see good woman can send all love in my heart to she's my wife and live 4 aver in love...

2007-05-07 17:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by ayay012 1 in Weddings

2007-05-07 17:50:20 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ Tia Alexandria ♥ 3 in Friends

K i wrote a question but i am going to reword it . thinking of (My husband and I have been married for three years and have three daughters under the age of three. We are having trouble in our marriage and we seem not to work things out. He doesn't trust me and no i havent cheated.I want him home more and help me around the house, but I know he has a job to do. These things are nearly simple, but our big problem is we are so far in debt and he can lose his job because of it. I am a full time student and am using my gi bill for this so no money coming out for that. we do have a single income coming in but i have a homebase bus. that i do make some good money however we have child support to pay and i like that quilty in my husband for taking care of his other kids but its hard. I love my husband and I know my girls need their father.I tried asking about counsiling and he said no. what do i do

2007-05-07 17:48:36 · 10 answers · asked by sweetteepi2282 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this man that works in the a pharmacy in the same supermarket I work in. I've had an on-going crush on him for about five months. He comes into my store to eat every now and then. We see each other when we get off of work here and there but we never say much to each other. I'm to shy to tell him that I like him, and i'm really starting to obsess over the guy. I bought him flowers for valentines day a few months back but I was to afraid to ever tell him that I sent them to him. What should I do? He is very nice to me, and even bought me something in the check out line when I forgot my money in the car a few days ago. Maybe i'm just crazy.

2007-05-07 17:47:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 17:45:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What exactly does other plans mean? We text back and forth, and get together to hang out every other day. It's been a gradual thing but going on for a couple of weeks. I asked about he weekend, he didn't send me anything back. I asked about getting the tickets to the movie, he said he had other plans. I was upset thought - forget it. But his text came back the day after other occured asked if I was mad and wanting to hang out. Then skip another day, then another text came what are you up too. I didn't reply back as my friends said to forget it. I went to the a place with friends where I thought he might be and there he was walking around with somebody else - 4 years his senior but all the guys view her as the hot chick. I might add after getting with me, another friend said he made a bet with this girl to go out on a date with him if he bowled better. I have feelings but i just don't know if their returned.

2007-05-07 17:43:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend broke up with in january cuz she was pissed at me...told me i acted like a kid and was immature etc etc...anyway she also ended it by saying ''this will be the last time you hear from me...'' ever since then, we still are emailing each other. yes she does reply. what is wrong with her? playing hard to get or still havent let go of me?? whatd you think?? in one email she told me, if you stopped acting like a kid, you'd be at least bearable....'' i dont need you in my life, nor do you need me in your life.'' ?????

2007-05-07 17:43:21 · 26 answers · asked by ghetto393 1 in Singles & Dating

My grandpa passed away last June...he was more like a father to me tho, i saw him everyday growing up...he died very suddenly, and i just cant seem to make it through the grieving process...i still cry all the time, i miss him so terribly much...having been almost a yr, is this normal? i figured id be at least able to go a week or so without crying by this point...thanks everyone

2007-05-07 17:40:29 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Family

I previously wrote a question about my ex because we broke up and he still drives by my house. But anyway now I want to know what is going on in "guys'" heads! My ex is 30 and i'm 22. Yet I seem to be the more mature one. I want to talk and communicate and he just shuts down. We broke up because he says he can't trust me. (I didn't do anything really) I just maintain relationships with guy friends. He has a major fit about it! He goes into a jealous rage whenever we talk, he can't stand me talking to another guy, he says I "flirt" when all I do is smile and be friendly because I don't want to be snooty to anyone. Come on help me out? Are guys insecure, how can I make it better? (Hopefully we get the chance to work on it)

2007-05-07 17:40:08 · 23 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

First time of having sex?
I am really REALLY confused about the first time having sex. I don't exactly know that I will be having sex any time soon but I am planning ahead. I have heard just about everything about it. Truthfully, does it hurt the first time? I am a guy, and I know it probably won't hurt ME, but will it hurt my girlfriend? Will it hurt for a long time or just for the first few minutes? Should we go slow or fast? Will it bleed and how much? Please I need ANSWERS!!

2007-05-07 17:40:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend since 3 years now.....We are almost like very close Best Friends...We havent met each other much but we almost everyday chat online.....
The problem is,I loved her before but didnt tell her....But now she is showing her true colours....First as per i saw her,she looked quite religious and shy type..Didn't talk much to anyone, but now as per her stories.... She has many friends who are BOYS.....She just says THEY ARE "JUST" HER FRIENDs !!
So that means I am one of the usual guys from them ! Not a special kind.....She said to me many times that she is very close to me,but i dont believe her at all !
Second, I dont want her to talk to other boys.....
What should I do ???
I am just sick and tired of all the pain am suffering......
I just wanna end with her !!! but dont wnna hurt her !

2007-05-07 17:38:07 · 12 answers · asked by smak786110 1 in Friends

My best friend has supposedly found the love of his life. They are having a long distance relationship. He says he loves her but he is continueing talking to other girls and having sex with other women. I've tried to talk to him about it. Bout his answer is "I just dont want to get hurt." What should I do?

2007-05-07 17:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by buddyrex_2001 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my wife, but we are having strong arguments lately and she already cross the line breaking one computer, my cell phone, hiting our dog to hurt me, calling my family horrible names and what is worst: she has called the police on me and I didint touch her !! just to bother me ... I went to a phsycologist, therapist, EVERYTHING !! I am not an angel and I act aggresively when I loose it but NEVER violence !!! she has throw things to me, even sissors that almost cut me or who knows ... what can I do? she wont leave me and to be honest I am willing to fight for this relationship ... but calling me names and all this violence is killing me inside. Any advice?

2007-05-07 17:36:30 · 16 answers · asked by Bono 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I started talking to this girl that I used to have a thing with (we went out a few times but nothing really happened), see we used to go to the same school, but i moved, and now i go to a different school, its still in the same town. Well I was talking to her and she kept saying how much she missed me and how I always made her laugh. I also told her about this job I have and she said that she would stop by to see me sometime. Im grounded right now, so i cant acctually ask her out for a while, but this girl has a history for being a tease, and I think she is doing it again. Should i just give up and move on, or should i see if shes being sincere. Last time she pulled this sht on me i ended up hating her for months and id rather not get hurt again if I can avoid it.

2007-05-07 17:34:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i win him back and/or make him see what hes missing out on?????

2007-05-07 17:34:25 · 17 answers · asked by Liss 1 in Singles & Dating

anyone know a website or have a copy of a basic transcript for weddding vows and can send it to me via e-mal?

2007-05-07 17:34:02 · 9 answers · asked by ogg08 5 in Weddings

What is the best length of time to ask your girlfreind to marry you? i have been dating this girl for two months but have known her and been freinds with her my whole life? how long should i wait to pop the question and yes we"ve both been married already to other people?

2007-05-07 17:33:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok I met this guy last week, we had dinner last weds. then I dont hear from him. The thing is he is here from out of state to visit his family and I know this is family time, he is moving back here the first of next month. Well I really like him so far and we get along great on the phone, when we met it was a bit akward, I dont hear from him till I txt him on sunday, I say hi and ask if he is having fun with the fam, he txt back says he is at the coast with his fam, be back monday. I say when you get a chance it would be cool to talk. That too eager? I haven't txt him back. Should I wait and see if he contacts me or just forget him? before we met for dinner he sounding really into me. What should I do? I dont want to interfear with his famliy time and he goes back home this weekend. Should I just sit back and relax? I HATE DATING AND ALL THE CRAP THAT GOES WITH IT!!!!!

2007-05-07 17:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by moosenose1981 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 17:31:16 · 9 answers · asked by Yong I 1 in Family

we're constantly fighting!!!! the only time we arent fighting is when we're actually togeather and thats not too often. well i'm scared as to what i should do and i know that she loves me and I her but that may be what causes some problems and she can be alittle imature. I've been told i act too old for my age and i think thats why we work so well it's like a balance. I'm not sure but i need to find a way to stop all the fightinh so we can get back to being happy. Neither of us are ready to give up but it's not far away. HELP????

2007-05-07 17:30:33 · 6 answers · asked by Mitch 1 in Singles & Dating

Where'd you claim you met em' at, lol?

2007-05-07 17:28:41 · 1 answers · asked by xoxo 4 in Singles & Dating

I was going to give this girl a pass to class note that I had so I can talk to her and she can't be late because that's what she said she doesn't want to be late to class we only talked for like 15 seconds the last time but some people said that's not good it’s seems like I’m stoking her and I now 100% sure I’m not going to get number because I don’t even talk to her enough to tell her how I feel about her and we don’t even live next to each other so what do u suggest do

2007-05-07 17:26:33 · 11 answers · asked by air hany 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 17:25:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anayeli S 1 in Singles & Dating

she was just using me! I think she married me just to get the green card and lately has been asking me to help her get her parents and brothers and sister to move to the US from Taiwan! IT cost like freakin a few thousands dollars just to get the paper work and legality to get just one. She wants me to help them get the residency ASAP. I also noticed lately that wehn I refused, she push me out and make me sleep in the SOFA! She even threaten to divorce me if I dont help her! Now Im trap cos if I divorce her, I would lose part of my assets and yet she still retain her green card. Please help me what to do. Im so mad!

2007-05-07 17:23:51 · 18 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need ur e-mails

2007-05-07 17:22:04 · 3 answers · asked by Harley C 2 in Singles & Dating

At a wedding, when it comes to the bridesmaids, is it really that unheard of or bad to wear your hair down? (i.e.: hair straight and parted or swept to the side.)

2007-05-07 17:21:53 · 9 answers · asked by YinxSphinxmen 4 in Weddings

I know you're supposed to wear your wedding and engagement ring on you left hand...but it makes me really uncomfortable to wear any ring on my left hand. Would it be really so terrible if I wore them on my right hand?

2007-05-07 17:21:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings