ok I met this guy last week, we had dinner last weds. then I dont hear from him. The thing is he is here from out of state to visit his family and I know this is family time, he is moving back here the first of next month. Well I really like him so far and we get along great on the phone, when we met it was a bit akward, I dont hear from him till I txt him on sunday, I say hi and ask if he is having fun with the fam, he txt back says he is at the coast with his fam, be back monday. I say when you get a chance it would be cool to talk. That too eager? I haven't txt him back. Should I wait and see if he contacts me or just forget him? before we met for dinner he sounding really into me. What should I do? I dont want to interfear with his famliy time and he goes back home this weekend. Should I just sit back and relax? I HATE DATING AND ALL THE CRAP THAT GOES WITH IT!!!!!
2007-05-07 17:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by moosenose1981 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and when we were at dinner he kept looking at my mouth, is that good ?
2007-05-07 17:43:23 · update #1
what till he initiates contact with you, if he doesnt then id forget about him, if he doesnt then he isn't worth the time
2007-05-07 17:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm probably not the best person to give advice on this because i tend to be very straight forward. but i'll try anyway. i hate the waiting game, so i say give it a few... BUT since he knows what it's like to date, he should understand how everyone gets during the beginning of a relationship. you want to know if it could possibly be something or if you should just quickly move on and not waste your time. so, give it some time and i would straight up ask "am i wasting my time? if so, tell me." haha. i have always been straight forward and it always works out well for me. my motto is, if i have a question, i'm gonna ask.
2007-05-07 17:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are really into there families.
Just wait til he gets back.
I am not trying to be a ***** but this happens frequently.
Often times talking to someone and meeting someone is 2 completely different things.
Was the chemistry there? Was he attracted to you?
Were you attracted to him? Just hang out and see what happens. Good luck.
2007-05-07 17:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by blazing_fire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. thats a hard one. I think, if he's interested, he'll get back to you. Don't text him too much cause he might get scared off. I wouldn't say "when you get a chance it would be cool to talk" it sounds like you need to talk to him about something. I'd wait a while to say anything. is he moving MOVING here? if he's moving here, he's got LOTS to do! if he's in to you, i think he'll get back to you once he settles down. you could always ask him to send you his screenname or if he has a facebook or myspace profile (or something like that). that way you can read up on him, and he'll remember you're there... but just asking to chat with him online isn't asking as much as asking for phone conversations...
i hope that made sense... i'm tired and need to go to bed, lol.
anyways, good luck!
2007-05-07 17:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by blinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit back and relax. You can scare him away by being TOOO eager... but you do need to show him that you are interested. If he is back on Monday... call him Tues or Wed, give him time to settle in. Remember to put yourself in his shoes... if you were visiting family wouldn't you be busy? And when you get home... lots to settle from when you were gone.
Good luck to you!
2007-05-07 17:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by LifeIsPassion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah. I think you should just let it go for now, sit back and chill and wait for him to call. Go about your business and don't chase after him. Men like a challenge. It's a good thing to make him call you. Belive me if he's interested, he WILL call. Let him have his time with his family. It shows him that you respect his time with his family.
2007-05-07 17:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already extended your offer to him, now the ball is in his court. Your life doesn't revolve around him, so why should you drop everything and wait for him for anything?
Go on and continue meeting other people. That way you have more options and you might even meet someone great who actually lives closer. :)
2007-05-07 17:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not contact him at all. Wait for him to make the next move then you will know if he is really interested.
2007-05-07 17:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating is suppose to be fun so relax and enjoy. you did your part already and if he doesnt reply, i dont think you should waste your time on him anymore. if you keep calling or texting him, you will look desperate and needy. no matter how much a guy likes you, that woud scare them off
2007-05-07 17:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by dtmt_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't dated him, you just met him and he seems to be here more to be with his family not have a relationship
2007-05-07 17:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋