It is uncomfortable for the girl the first time. If you are going to have sex, use a condom and if it is her first time invest in some ky jelly for easy insertion. Go very slow and let her be in charge of how you are doing it and how far she is willing to let you go. It is her pain level not yours. Bleeding is different with everyone and if you can be sure to place a towel under you as not to soil sheets if you care about that. She will not bleed long and it only really is painful the first time after that it is all good. There is your truth and remember the harder you push into her and the fast you push into her it will hurt more. Her first time should be spacial as it should be for both of you. If you love her listen to her as you make love to her and you will know if you are hurting her or not.
Tracylyn S
2007-05-07 17:48:56
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answered by Tracylyn S 3
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Well ain't you a cutey! It depends on your girlfriend. All chicks are different but if she is a virgin she may bleed and sometimes it is like her having her period. The pain is bare-able cause if it wasn't none of us would have gone back!!! Dont expect much the first time. The best thing you can do is make it loving and go slow and ask her if she is OK. I have actually heard that it does hurt the male a little as you have to push through a layer of skin and I assume the guy who told me that was telling me the truth. The second time will be easier and so on and so on.
2007-05-07 17:47:50
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answered by karena k 4
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No, it won't hurt you, YES it will hurt her. Go SLOW, nice and easy. She will spot but usually not too much, almost like the very start of her period but it doesn't last long. It's the first couple in and outs that hurts her. but it's a hurts so good and the hurt goes away and the good takes over. After the first time, it won't hurt her. It'll just be pleasure.
2007-05-07 17:45:33
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answered by Rebecca 1
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I'm sure u know that u should wait until u completely ready.
so to answer u: all girls are different when it comes to sex, some will hurt or have small pains for 3days after sex, some only pains for a few seconds. and some will bleed and others wont.
as for u not hurting-LOL, I have heard that some men did get sore having sex with a virgin, the head of their manhood that had to penetrate the membrane of the girl( just for information). .
anyway: go slow, make sure she is comfortable, when she says stop u do so immediately.
2007-05-07 17:50:30
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answered by Phoenix21 7
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Well, sex is important, but.. I didn't have sex, for the first time, until the age of... 24, i think, so most guys would throw a fit over not having it, all the while a small margin are patient enough to wait. And when you do have it, if for the first time, or just a romp, it shouldn't be a big deal the amount of time in between..
2016-05-18 00:05:36
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answered by ? 3
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I had these same type questions the first time I had sex. But instead of posting a question on the internet (there was no such thing back then) I just learned and discovered for myself with my partner. I recommend you do the same. Sex is a natural thing, and aside from emotional issues, there should be no lasting pain or discomfort. There shouldn't many emotional issues either if you wait until the time is truly "right."
2007-05-07 17:44:59
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answered by Anonymous
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It will probably hurt her for the first little bit until the good feeling takes over. Just take it slow and easy on her and then you can progress if you like. Just be careful and use protection and listen to what she wants you to do. She will tell you when to intensify what you are doing.
2007-05-07 17:49:56
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answered by bluevr6streak 2
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if u both first timers start slow so u wont hurt her as much & it will bleed dont know how much but dont stress once ur in it nothing is going to matter at the time
2007-05-07 17:46:58
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answered by mvp 3
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It would probably hurt a little but the excitement would dimish all that. And the bleeding? It will occur only whne your gf is a certified virgin and when you got directly to the hymen.
Expect total perspiration!
It's not bad afterall.
2007-05-07 17:46:10
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answered by Anonymous
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well no, it won't hurt you but it will hurt her. Depending on your size, it could hurt a lot or just a little bit. the bleeding part depends on the girl but it won't be a river. it could hurt the entire time or just a little bit but just be careful and don't rush it all. just take it easy
2007-05-07 17:46:07
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answered by xorubberduckyox2003 1
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