What exactly does other plans mean? We text back and forth, and get together to hang out every other day. It's been a gradual thing but going on for a couple of weeks. I asked about he weekend, he didn't send me anything back. I asked about getting the tickets to the movie, he said he had other plans. I was upset thought - forget it. But his text came back the day after other occured asked if I was mad and wanting to hang out. Then skip another day, then another text came what are you up too. I didn't reply back as my friends said to forget it. I went to the a place with friends where I thought he might be and there he was walking around with somebody else - 4 years his senior but all the guys view her as the hot chick. I might add after getting with me, another friend said he made a bet with this girl to go out on a date with him if he bowled better. I have feelings but i just don't know if their returned.
2007-05-07 17:43:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's still interested in you, apparently, based on the text messages. You don't have a commitment to each other just yet, it's too early in the game to expect it. Try just dealing with your hurt feelings on your own this time, and give him another chance. The next time you see him, ask him about this other girl, and whether he is serious about her or not. His response will give you a real good clue as to where you stand with him.
2007-05-07 17:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start your life by doing what you want to do 1st, make your own plans. If you are young and it sounds like it to me, you should have many friends and "date" but dont take on something serious until you have lived life and reach that level of career that you want. Only when you have done that, then by all means go meet the right person and then settle down. Life is too short. Meaning dont fall in love and get married until you are late 20's - early 30's.
2007-05-07 17:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by George H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's only been a couple of weeks! he might have made this plans long time ago before you even showed up on his horizon! Now, if he repeatedly has other plans for every Friday evening then yes, you should reconsider.
2007-05-07 17:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaa, she will't even rigidity. She's 13. And her voice is okay, she might want to take making a song instructions, and she or he did not even write the song. Clarence Jey and Patrice Wilson did, patrice is the dude who raps on the best.
2016-11-26 02:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by satterly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your slave.
He has the right to make other plans.
"other" means not the plans you were trying to make wwith him; plans means that he already had something he was going to do.
You should forget about him, as you are too immature for a relationship.
When you realize that the other person doesn't have to devote their entire life to you, just because you're involved, then you'll be ready.
2007-05-07 18:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, why not? it's not like you're in a committed relationship. get over it a little. if he wasn't interested, he wouldn't have gone out with you in the first place. just ask him about plans for Saturday, or the next weekend. this is a really simple solution.
2007-05-07 17:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a jerk, and i would forget about him. i don't like the whole dating twenty people and researching his options thing that's going on. that would just make me feel insecure. like is he going to be looking if he actually gets in a relationship with me? think about how you will feel if you do go out with him and end up in a relationship. probably insecure and wondering if he's with you just because he couldn't get anyone "better."
i say no go! forget him, players aren't worth it.
2007-05-07 17:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by soliel021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just keeping his options open. He is dating around. If you guys aren't in a relationship then he is doing nothing wrong. Maybe you should do the same!
2007-05-07 17:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by SSWildcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously not ready for a serious relationship. It's only been a couple of weeks, I think you should give him a break.
2007-05-07 17:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by DumBlonD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but if he only wants to go out with u during the week and hes not working on teh weekends then beware. good luck! feel free to contact me if you need more help! :)
2007-05-07 17:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋