My best friend has supposedly found the love of his life. They are having a long distance relationship. He says he loves her but he is continueing talking to other girls and having sex with other women. I've tried to talk to him about it. Bout his answer is "I just dont want to get hurt." What should I do?
2007-05-07 17:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by buddyrex_2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he could betray her trust like that then he cant really be as in love with her as he says. Your friend has some commitment issues that he needs to see a therpist for.
2007-05-07 17:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Renee77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships do not last very long and by the looks of your friend, he does not seem to mind.
Don't worry so much for your friend, he is a big boy. Let him make and learn from his own mistakes, that is the only way he will ever learn.
When a person truly finds his love, only he will make that final commitment.
2007-05-07 17:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by MYSTERY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him figure this out on his own. or maybe even tell this other girl he supposedly loves. ALTHOUGH he can't really love her like he says he does if he can't even commit to the relationship. Yeah, long distance sucks, but if you really want it to work, it will. Believe me..my fiance is halfway across the country and i dont even want to think about cheating. he's my love, and i know it in my heart, soul, & mind. make sure he knows he's making bad decisions and this relationship will never go anywhere because of it
2007-05-07 17:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by xorubberduckyox2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. Long distance relationships are the worst as far as I'm concerned. I am in one also but I trust him.
Your options are telling his girlfriend which would make you lose your friend (Is it worth it?) I don't believe his excuse for a second. Or Just stay out of it.
2007-05-07 17:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is a fool and doesnt know what love is nor do i think anyone truly knows what true love is. I think its incorrect that he can do such a thing and well i say you tell him straight up if you really feel that this might hurt his rep or hurt him in the future then tell him if hes ur bestfriend he will listen trust me :) i used to be kinda like that kind of guy and my bestfriend had a talk with me about that kinda ish :)
2007-05-07 17:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by deathtrooper69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you feel like contacting her with proof that your friend is cheating (not recommended), there's not a whole lot you can do. You're right though - if he loved her, he would be faithful to her. And his excuse is that he doesn't want to get hurt, yet he's doing something that would hurt her if she ever found out? Stay out of it is what I would suggest.
2007-05-07 17:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! your best friend really needs a reality check. You really need to tell him to stop this and that what he is doing behind his gf's back is wrong. Your friend is not at all worried about getting hurt. It is his gf who is going to end up getting hurt. She will eventually find out. Do the right thing man and tell him to stop this cheating non-sense and be a good boyfriend or tell her what is going on.
2007-05-07 17:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose a better friend. You are obviously a man with a great head on your shoulders. Say this to your friend with regard to his relationship:
"The words that I would live by if and when I really loved some are: Choose wisely and treat kindly."
2007-05-07 17:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by thehouse3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not loving her he is just making fool of you.He is not committed to any girl.He just want to do x with everybody.
Dont bother him but try to warn him regarding his behavior.
2007-05-07 17:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by coolspy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kinda hard because you cant help someone who doesnt want to get helped. but what you can do is help him see it.he does this to comfort he self because he doesnt want to get use to only one person so he goes around. and you gotta just be turthful to him even if the turth hurts.good luck!!!
2007-05-07 17:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by **jUiCy** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋